is there any difference in frustration after 7 days?

[reeve]

Hi I'm new to this forum and also relativly new to chastity.

Me and my girlfriend has been playing this on and off for about half a year and gonna bring it to another level when my first chastity device will be here in a few days.

Normally she would let me cum about every 4-5 days but she said when my penis is locked up in a device she wants to extend this a lot. Ofcourse since I'm new to longer periods of orgasm denial we don't want to rush into it without proper training. So maybe we'll limit the lock up time at first.

So my question is; is there any diffrence in frustration after 7 days?
Will I be much much hornier after 14 days compared to 7 days?

[poor]

I can tell you my pattern (or 'cycle' as its commonly referred to hereabouts). I'm 47, age is a factor and yours will be different. The 1st few cycles are the most intense. Once you've learnt yours you can accept what your body is doing which makes the mental challenges easier to meet.

1st 2-3 days flat on the floor.
By end of 1st week i'm quite 'juiced'.
Following week: growing horniness which peaks again at 15 days. (Precum leakage starts here too)
Week after: even hornier, totally obsessed with the denial until 22-24 days when it peaks with a couple of days where I have to watch myself as I get snappy with others.
After that I'm cooler than Fonzie, constantly 75% juiced with occasional days where I'd cum if I didn't hold it back until around 10 weeks and then it happens anyway.

[locked4her55]

I think everyone is different but I agree with poor that age plays a big factor.

In the beginning for me, by day 7 I was ripping the house apart when my wife was gone, looking for a key. Now I don't bother looking. I also think your particular device could contribute to your condition. When I wore a CB6000s I was in a more aroused state than now in my MM Jailbird. The friction of the plastic rubbing the head of my penis was sometime very frustrating. Anyway it looks like you are going to have your question answered pretty soon. Good luck and enjoy the ride.

[reeve]

I found that I'm really horny allready after 3 days and that it stays like that the days after (havent gone past 5 days tho).
The biggest problem is the urge not to jack off cause I think I could go on for a lot longer íf my cock was secured.

The thing is. We're still trying to make up the rules after I've put the cage on.
I would love to go in head first (no pun intended) and just let her deside when she really feels like letting me have an orgasm, but the thing is she most likely wouldnt need my cock a that often.

I'm sure that she wont leave me in there longer than 2 weeks, but I hope I can still focus on work after the first week

[fuzzydunlop]

So my question is; is there any diffrence in frustration after 7 days?
Will I be much much hornier after 14 days compared to 7 days?

I am glad you as ask this, because it was just on my mind. I have experimented with this for a long time. I think age plays a factor, but so do a lot of other things like life stress, how well things are going with your partner, etc. I have gone up to 50 days, which is not as long as some, but a pretty good clip.

Right now I am at Day 7 myself. During the last few months, I sorta slipped into bad habits, so right now, that seems like an accomplishment.

All else being equal, I am horniest 3-7 days after an orgasm. I think it gets easier after 14 days, and many people seem to find a kind of zone where they are horny, but not that tempted to have an orgasm, and yet very responsive to their partners.

No matter how far I am in to a streak, it seems like if I am overly stressed out, fatigued, or sick, it can stop being fun, and I can find myself wanting an orgasm, just to spark or spice up things. Ironically, I sometimes have an easier time with denial while enjoying the "high" of it, and a harder time abstaining when I have a flat libido.

Also, sometimes, when the streak goes long, that can add a lot of pressure to the orgasm. I have had some real good ones and some real mediocre ones at the end of a long streak, depending on how life is going.

Anyway, good luck to you. I am hoping me and the wife go at least another week.

[Anymouse]

I suppose it varies for everyone - I have gone on this latest time since September 10 (122 days and a wake-up).
Some days an O is all I think about, others not so much.
But whenever Miss Beth wants to get cuddly it is like turning on the turbo-charger. Anything she wants (though I know that anything I want is off the table, because what I think I want - orgasm - and what I really want - no orgasm are two different things).

[Aarkey]

reeve, it all varies. The best suggestion I can make is to go there and see how it feels. I strongly you suggest you try it (especially since she wants it) and just be honest with yourself about where you're at, and communicate it all to her.

Personally, I have a lot of experience at going 4-5 days as well, though I have gone as long as 28 and past 8 days several times. How frustrating it is depends on various factors, how much teasing there is, if I had expected to be let out and then denied, my own moods, etc.

For me it is also physically more challenging as it does along. When I went my two longest times (17 & 28 days) I was prostate milked and then it wasn't any kind of dramatic result, the relief from the pressure helped me out a great deal physically. Though emotionally it left me even more desperate.

[luckylocked]

Like everyone says it all varies but I found 25-35 days were the toughest. I was super horny but that also probably had to do with the mind fuck of knowing there was no orgasm planned for at least another 60-70 days.
I am at 86 days today and I still wake up every morning horny as hell but it is certainly not the elevated buzz of the first month or so.
I find now I can concentrate properly again and I am probably not as attentive as I was at 30-60 days. We are going for gold by doing 100 days (or more she hasn't decided yet when I will be freed, she hinted it might stretch out to Valentines day) but I think our next term will be quite a bit shorter but also with a shorter period of freedom between lockups.
I think for me the frustration next time will be different as it will be purely her call as to the term which could be anything from 4 weeks to 4 months and I wont have a clue.
So many variable in the fun game of MC.

[reeve]

Well 100 days it will never be for us cause she'll probably wants to have sex every 1-2 weeks.
But who knows, maybe she likes being licked a lot more

I should be getting the CB6000 in the mail tomorrow. Cant wait to lock my cock up and give her the key!

[poor]

Before you do read this: http://maybemaimed.com/2008/09/24/top-t ... evice-wear & spend an evening taking off the rough edges from production with an emery board (ask your wife).

You can thank me later.