Christmas Release?

[if53]

I got thinking.... As a newbie it's really good to be able to read all of your experiences on here, but it is still very easy to assume things.
It dawned on me today that I had subconsciously assumed that most locked guys will be getting released as a Christmas present/treat on Christmas day.
What is the census on this? Are there any guys out there who know that they will or will not be released for Christmas?

[kpb57]

With us, chastity is a little different. Usually I am unlocked every evening, and most mornings we have sex before we get up, so there is no actual "denial".
But just before last weekend I somehow planted the idea of lockup until Christmas in her (see my thread in the Member's Lounge). So I have quite positive knowledge that Chrismas Eve or, at the latest, Christmas Morning will see me unlocked.

K

[celticqueens_sub]

We have no Christmas treat specifically. CQ has said that I won't orgasm until at least Christmas day, so no assurance. She may chose to extend as she sees fit. So far this cycle is at 3weeks. Typically we are around 10 to 15 days. But there is no expectation.

[Atone]

Are there any guys out there who know that they will or will not be released for Christmas?

Not a chance I will be released for Christmas.

For that matter not on any holiday or important occasion. I know not all guys experience this but I am definitely not very attentive or appreciative (and just plain grumpy sometimes) for a couple of days after an orgasm so my wife has pretty much taken them off the table.

[if53]

So, do you or DID you find that it's frustrating at any point, guys are getting 'treated' but you know 100% your not? At least up until the last minute some guys are hoping.
Maybe over time it's something you just get used to?

[kpb57]

The way others are "treated" or not should not play a role in a particular relationship. It's only up to those in the relationship to set their "rules", if any. And to agree what's best for them.

The fact that others may have had their release just this week does not have any effect on the good feelings I have right now for being locked til 24th or 25th. I look forward to the moment we will have our fun, and I appreciate every moment in between.

If someone REALLY is frustrated (not in the playful sense), then they're not getting it right, IMO.

K

[if53]

K, That makes a lot of sense... If I try to imagine myself in that role all I think of is that I will be wanting the release, but I can appreciate that once in that situation it must take on a an erotic role all of it's own when there's two of you!

It is quite refreshing to hear as I've only really ever come across chastity as a submissive punishment scenario, thus thinking everybody's desperate to get out. I'm kinda jealous hearing how much enjoyment your all getting out of being locked AND the extra bonus of enjoying being unlocked!!

[Atone]

The way others are "treated" or not should not play a role in a particular relationship. It's only up to those in the relationship to set their "rules", if any. And to agree what's best for them.

Well said.

[Atone]

It is quite refreshing to hear as I've only really ever come across chastity as a submissive punishment scenario, thus thinking everybody's desperate to get out. I'm kinda jealous hearing how much enjoyment your all getting out of being locked AND the extra bonus of enjoying being unlocked!!

yes, chastity is the reward

[Tom Allen]

[...] as I've only really ever come across chastity as a submissive punishment scenario, thus thinking everybody's desperate to get out.

:headdesk:

We try so hard to spread the word, but the tide always seems to be against us.