Post O Low......How low can it go?

[wishful4]

Since I was unlocked anyway, my KH/spouse decided it was time to play. After pleasuring her she decided it was time for a climax for me. After 6 weeks of chastity, I was excited to say the least. Now that it is over, I'm in a "Post O Low" that's lower than I can ever remember. My spouse even remarked over lunch that I looked unhappy. I assured her I was not, but after having one of the most intense O's that I've ever had, it seems crazy to feel this way, but it is undeniable. I want to tell my spouse about these feelings, but I'm afraid that she will think I'm ungrateful or think I want permanent orgasm denial. This is crazy. What do I want......???????

[cb6000s]

If you read enough of this site and the other blogs you will see that this is a very common responce. It seems counter intuititve but then this whole chastity lifestyle seems counter intuitive. Wish I had some advice but other than the usual "what works for you" I've got nothing. Some couples have a multiple orgasm holiday when coming out of chastity and some couples do the one orgasm and back you go so you get your head straight attitude.
I personally like the holiday method. The first orgasm is the best orgasm that I have ever had, every time. Then there are some really nice orgasms followed by the that's enough sweetie time to put that away for awhile.

[TwistedMister]

Dunno...I haven't been getting any 'low' lately. In fact, it's usually been that the next day I'm hornier than ever...but that could be because most of them have been ruined/semi-ruined (except for the last one). The closest I get to a 'low' is a sort of disappointment if she leaves me loose for a couple of days after instead of re-asserting control immediately. I think she thinks she is doing me a 'favor' but it's the control that I find 'hot'.

[Atone]

Some couples have a multiple orgasm holiday when coming out of chastity and some couples do the one orgasm and back you go so you get your head straight attitude.
I personally like the holiday method.

We tried the "holiday" method at first after reading about it in BCWYWF. It sounded like fun to me at the time but ultimately my wife and I both decided that we liked the one orgasm and back in method. Actually, that discussion was one of the first where she started to take "real" control and exert her desires (not in the absence of mine though). She didn't like the idea of a multiple orgasm holiday so we did away with it. She seems to be becoming rather comfortable with the zero orgasm holiday for me as long as she gets a little PIV play on occasion.

-A