Chastity truths (at least for me)

[fuzzydunlop]

1. I am happier when I go through extended periods of time with no orgams.

2. No. 1 isn't always easy, but I never regret it afterwards.

3. My wife usually doesn't think chasity is *hot* She enjoys it for practical reasons most of the time. Some of the time she can get annoyed when I am self obsessed or clingy.

4. Although my wife nurtures my denial, it is mostly up to me not to slip up. Some of the time I am going to feel "locked and left" but I have to be patient and strong to get through these points. Mental submission can be as effective as anything else.

5. When my wife nurtures and encourages what is good for me, I feel infinitely closer to her, and I don't want to let her down.

[Cagieboy]

I have the same feelings.

[poor]

1. Mostly on my honour (about 20% locked). No 'days off'.
2. Taking it one day at a time.
3. My game, played by her rules.
4. We are much closer than before. (Massive understatement!)
5. I should be doing the ironing.

[wishful4]

1. I am happier when I go through extended periods of time with no orgams.

2. No. 1 isn't always easy, but I never regret it afterwards.

3. My wife usually doesn't think chasity is *hot* She enjoys it for practical reasons most of the time. Some of the time she can get annoyed when I am self obsessed or clingy.

4. Although my wife nurtures my denial, it is mostly up to me not to slip up. Some of the time I am going to feel "locked and left" but I have to be patient and strong to get through these points. Mental submission can be as effective as anything else.

5. When my wife nurtures and encourages what is good for me, I feel infinitely closer to her, and I don't want to let her down.

Well said! Pretty much the same for me except that she is flexing her dominant wings ever so slowly.

[danj]

I can also say this holds pretty true for me.

[fuzzydunlop]

Here are some more:

I actually have an easier time with chastity, when I have a high libido and feel closer to my wife.
It sucks to be sick when on a chastity kick.

[whistlersix]

1. I am happier when I go through extended periods of time with no orgams.

2. No. 1 isn't always easy, but I never regret it afterwards.

3. My wife usually doesn't think chasity is *hot* She enjoys it for practical reasons most of the time. Some of the time she can get annoyed when I am self obsessed or clingy.

4. Although my wife nurtures my denial, it is mostly up to me not to slip up. Some of the time I am going to feel "locked and left" but I have to be patient and strong to get through these points. Mental submission can be as effective as anything else.

5. When my wife nurtures and encourages what is good for me, I feel infinitely closer to her, and I don't want to let her down.

2 is especially accurate for me. She loves the benefits of me being more attentive and loving. I'm almost a totally different person when I'm locked up. If it's been a while, she can and does notice right away my change in attitude, but I think she doesn't like that I have to wear that "thing" to behave like that.

I'm hoping things will change over time though, but I'm not going to be to optimistic about it and I guess I'll just try and enjoy what I do have.