Will it always hurt?

[fonetik2003]

My Goddess finally allowed me the privilege of pleasuring her pussy today! Now it's been 16 days since my last orgasm and so I got hard when she was screaming in ecstasy. It kinda hurt and now her balls are sore. When I get my metal device (hang in there Atone buddy! It's gonna happen real soon!) will erections still hurt? I mean, if the cage is sized properly, it won't be as big an issue right?

[danj]

I've only worn a cb-6000s, but once I found the right fit, erections became manageable. Obviously, not as comfortable as hanging free.

I'm also measuring to move to metal (probably a Steelheart). Which device are you looking at?

[Atone]

A properly sized device will definitely help but there will still be situations where it will hurt a bit, or at least be rather uncomfortable. I think part of it can also be how the erections comes on. I very rarely have discomfort during nocturnal erections anymore even though they are often the most extreme (hardest). I do occasionally have some pain, usually on the balls, when I get hard while playing with my wife. I suspect that it has something to do with how quickly I get aroused in each situation.

One thing that I try to do is not get physically aroused while pleasuring my wife but just focus 100% on her. Sometimes that works better than others though, it can be hard to get in to that mental state.

-A

[fonetik2003]

I'll have to remember and try that next time I pleasure her then... Might help! Also, I'll measure carefully and multiple times before I order. Should I allow some "growing room" when I order?

[danj]

Might help! Also, I'll measure carefully and multiple times before I order. Should I allow some "growing room" when I order?

I'm trying to figure that out, too. Some say yes, some no. I think if you get the right flaccid length, probably no. If you get the cold, shriveled length then yes. Sorry, I'm not much help on that yet. I usually have only a smidge of room in the cb-6000s and that seems to work well.

[Locked by LRC]

When I was ready to order my MM device I measured myself over a week period a couple of times a day. I also wanted to make sure I got it right. When I measured I was just coming out of my shorts and wasn't shriveled.

When I had a 5/8 diffence from short to long I asked MM. He said bluntly "Go with the shortest."

I have had no complaints. Well after a couple of weeks I have complaints but, not about the comfort.

[wishful4]

I'll post my two cents because I have not had a chance to write about my MM sizing experience. The short version is that, the secret to a TBD such as a MM design is to get exactly the right spacing between the bottom of the cage and the bottom of the base ring. The right measurement here holds the device firmly in place and minimizes the device pushing away from your body during erection attempts or you attempting to pull out of the device.

Find the base ring that fits using the MM sizing kit. Order it in an oval and that will make it even more secure.

For the cage diameter, find the smallest ring that will slide down your flaccid shaft with no extra space, then add 1/4 in to the measurement for some growing room. This will also decrease the space between the bottom of the cage and the base ring for a more secure fit as described at the beginning. The cage diameter measurement is the most important measurement.

For cage length, measure the length of your shaft as recommended by MM, but I don't recommend subtracting the 1/4 in. Again, this will allow a little room for growing, and after being locked for several days, you'll likely find you fill the cage up and it makes nocturnal erections easier to cope with.

As tedious as the measurement process is and no matter how much we all discuss it, it's really a crap shoot as to whether it works out because we are all different. I initially ordered a 1 1/8 cage diameter, 1 3/4 cage length, and 1 7/8 oval base ring. What really fit for long term wear was a 1 3/8 cage dia., 2 in cage length, and 1 7/8 oval base ring. The 3/8 in gap measurement worked out fine.

[Atone]

As tedious as the measurement process is and no matter how much we all discuss it, it's really a crap shoot as to whether it works out because we are all different.

Unfortunately I have to agree with you on this. One more thing that complicates things is that the length affects the diameter. You can mush in to something a little short if you have the diameter to accept it. If the diameter is also small then this doesn't work.

-A

[fonetik2003]

Thanks for the advice guys! I intend to see how the initial setup on the device I'm purchasing works (It's an MM design) and then ordering new parts if necessary. But this CB-2000 I have isn't good for long term wear! The pinch point it now back and I had no choice but to reach into my panty drawer and unlock myself for a while to allow it to heal. I'm sure the lotion will speed up the process, even if I'm on the "honor system" in the meantime.