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[Paulie67]

I am new to all this. I have been wanting to do it for a long time. Two weeks ago I ordered my chastity device, "The Curve" as I needed the extra length. It arrived a week ago, I have spent the last week working out sizes of the rings and spacers, and getting used to it. I am a single man and in an hour or so I am handing over the keys to a straight male friend of mine. He knows what the key is for a chastity device that I am wearing. He he knows want to wear the device to control a masturbation/porn habit that is taking over my life and leaving me with no free time to enjoy life.

When I initially asked him if he would keep the keys for me he thought about it for four days as he considered it a big decision.

My chastity device is set up very well and I am very happy with it. I am using the smallest ring, which is quite tight, but it is the perfect size. I have slept in it for 4 nights without any problems. It basically does not all allow for movement up or down the shaft, and escape is impossible.

My only complaint is the hinge on the ring causes some pain due to pinching on the back of the scrotum at night mainly with nocturnal erections, I imagine I will get used to that.

[Paulie67]

I handed over the keys to him this afternoon about 5 hours ago, so now I am on the journey and have begun this new life style in earnest.

Feel free to offer advice or wisdom etc.

[Atone]

Welcome to the forum.

Try a little lube around the ring, that may help a little. Even better try getting a solid ring for it once you know what size you need for sure. I don't know if they make solid rings for the Curve or not but you can get them for the CB-3000 and they are much better in my opinion.

Check back in and let us know how it is going.

-A

[jnuts]

Good luck!

Just my personal opinion, don't bite off more than you can chew at first. You may also want to let him hide a key in your house in case you have some kind of emergency and have to remove it. That way you can give him a call and he can tell you where it is if you need it.

[Paulie67]

Thanks for the advice guys. I think a solid ring would be the way to go, I don't understand why they don't supply solid rings to start with. Yeah I know what size I am, I am using the smallest ring.

As for the keys, I won't need a spare key here because he lives only 5 to 10 minutes away, and he works only 2 minutes away.

Do you think it's is odd that a straight guy would gladly accept the keys to my device?

[Paulie67]

Where can I buy solid rings online?

[Paulie67]

This is a pick of me in The Curve chastity device.

[jnuts]

Do you think it's is odd that a straight guy would gladly accept the keys to my device, especially since he knows I am gay? I am just wondering if he is as straight as he thinks he is.

I've learned not to judge anymore when it cums to things of a sexual nature. If you have read anything I have previously written, you probably saw that I have a bit of a cum swallowing fetish. At face value I'm sure some would consider that gay. They would be wrong in my case.

[Paulie67]

Do you think it's is odd that a straight guy would gladly accept the keys to my device, especially since he knows I am gay? I am just wondering if he is as straight as he thinks he is.

I've learned not to judge anymore when it cums to things of a sexual nature. If you have read anything I have previously written, you probably saw that I have a bit of a cum swallowing fetish. At face value I'm sure some would consider that gay. They would be wrong in my case.

Wow that is very interesting, I never even considered that as a possibility. I think that is great How did you discover this fetish and how do you manage to balance it all out in regards to being straight and possibly repelled by mens sexual parts, and your taste for cum?

[Excession]

Do you think it's is odd that a straight guy would gladly accept the keys to my device, especially since he knows I am gay? I am just wondering if he is as straight as he thinks he is.

Before I was in the relationship I have now I used to have a gay friend who was also into orgasm denial and chastity. We chatted quite often about what we thought was hot and it became obvious that if you simply swapped the genders of our fantasy partners then our kinks were both very similar.

We talked about mutual key holding and although I wasn't interested in having him hold my keys, I could have happily kept his. Unfortunately this completely fell apart and destroyed our friendship for one simple reason: he believed that because I would be willing to do this for him that deep down there must be some kind of a chance for us to have a relationship beyond friendship.

I was actually so concerned this might happen that I made a big show of letting him know I was in no way interested in him sexually and although he initially said he completely understood, over time he would keep pushing at me to "play" with him in ways I'd repeatedly told him I wasn't interested in. It got so bad that we eventually had to part ways with me never having even seen his keys.

I had the idea you could simply be someone's friend and their key holder, but really if I put myself in his shoes and it was a gay woman offering to hold my keys I'd have a very hard time not putting my sexuality on her, that is after all what chastity does isn't it: focuses all your sexual energy on your key holder.

I of course have no idea about your friend, but if he really is completely straight (certainly that's how I think of myself) he really might just think he can be your friend and your key holder.