Question for all you "ex masturbators"

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Question for all you "ex masturbators"

Post by denied_one »

.We are a certain type of people, guys.

Ex-masturbators...

On a daily basis I mean...for all intents and purposes

Not many guys can make that claim legitimately.

So here's my question...

What part of the day is the "worst" for you? I put worst in quote because "worst" can mean different things. Could be a time of day that is more stressful for you. Or it could be a certain time of day that you used to do it most frequently. There could be a daily "trigger" that you had to overcome, where it's still difficult at times when that trigger arrives.

The absolute most difficult time for me is in the early hours of the morning, 4-5 am.

That was my most "intimate" time with my own quiet thoughts.

Its a toss up if I get up "on the wrong side of the bed" most days.

Just curious about everyone else's more difficult times..
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Re: Question for all you "ex masturbators"

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I used to masturbate pretty frequently. Almost daily in addition to sex with Red.
I thought it would be something I’d miss, but giving up masturbation has been the easiest part of chastity, so I don’t really have any "worst time of day".
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Re: Question for all you "ex masturbators"

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I don't really have a specific time of the day either and most days I honestly don't think about it.

However, I used to use masturbation when I got badly stressed by things that cropped up. Somehow it helped and once I had come I could tackle whatever it was better.

There have been occasions when things have caused me to need to have a wank, to jerk off, whatever you want to call it. These are the times that I would have done so in the past. Now, there is just a silent acknowledgement that I can't.

So my triggers are mainly external factors, such as pressures and stress, rather than daily. I guess I can go for many days or weeks without these triggers. Depends on the luck of life.
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For me, it is usually the morning shower. Everything is “just there” and no cleaning up needed afterwards. It was my morning jerk off sessions that made me realise my marriage was over. She had withdrawn from having sex with me; I sought my pleasure in the bathroom, and shortly afterwards discovered she was getting hers someplace completely different.

Bedtime masturbation was a different story. That was always more of a creating the situation. Getting the porn lined up, tissues for clean up, etc.
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That sounds like a difficult situation Nick. I hope you’re doing well now.
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