Spaceman wrote: ↑Thu Apr 03, 2025 4:22 pm
i will see what the night brings, especially about 5am (what is it about 5am?).
There is an interesting piece of science that I read about somewhere (can't remember where) that says that everybody's blood pressure increases a short while before sunrise. It happens always, even if the person is in a completely blacked out room, complete darkness. My understanding is that nobody can explain why it happens.
Maybe it explains the 5am phenomenon? I get them same by the way, although it was even earlier this morning, about 4:30 I think.
I have 3x HoD cages too, all use the same hinged ring. I think they're pretty good quality and good value. Damned effective too.
Hang on a minute... . This is FLR! We've been living a FLR!
I thought I read where morning wood was from REM sleep. I went years with undiagnosed sleep apnea. No morning wood and exhausted all the time. Put on an apnea machine and two things happened. I woke with wood and my whole body needed a morning stretch.
Once I went into the 2cm stubby nub I found myself sleeping on my stomach. I think I was trying to find myself in my sleep. The odd result was I couldn’t wear the mask and I don’t suffer from apnea on my stomach. No machine for almost a year now.
I say all this because recently I have been having wood more often at night and sleeping better than ever.
Now I have four cages as the sizes have steped down over time she's numbered them 1 ro 4, from flat to 4.5cms, all so she just has to give me a number and i have to change. She says the beauty of this is that she can mention a number in front of anyone and I know what I have ahead of me when we get home.
In the last 24 hours she been testing it , I've been in 1, 3 and 1 again (which she made me put on whilst swollen after getting close to a ruin), then I've been unlocked overnight so I can look forward to a 1 when she gets up, she seems to like the flat she bought.
Its not so much the cage changing, although that's bad enough, its more than she's clearly got all these ideas bubbling to the surface and is loving it. What has been unleashed?
When your partner joins in the chastity lifestyle
They come to the conclusion how can I make it fun and exciting for myself.
Without sex always being involved.
Because it is not just about sex to keep a man chaste.
That is an extra for the man when he is allowed to spoil.
A kind of reward for your good behavior.
In addition, there is slowly a lot of teasing on the path, which the key holder enjoys a lot.
Like in your case saying number where everyone is present, without the others knowing what the purpose and use is.
And it is your secret what you wear.
Lock permanently in inverted cage with ballspliter under the kilt
Went away for the night at short notice and although she told me to unlock I was to take No 1 (the flat) with me 'just in case' but in my pocket. On returning home I had to do the same, then lock up again.
Its been playing merry hell with my brain, its weird, less sensation than any of the larger ones, but more on my mind, maybe because I can no longer feel a penis, when I walk, sit or reach down when I'm naked, its just not there.
Its not been helping as shes been bring it up again and again, she's very proud of it having bought it herself. Anyway third night in it and all those mind games she's been playing made me dream about it, very very explicity, and I woke from the dream to find it was real and I was in the middle of a ruined O, just a ruin but enough to squirt over my legs and have to grab a tissue wuick before it got the bed
Omg thats only the third caged O in ten years of playing with a cage and the first time without touching or anything.
God told man that he would find obedient women in every corner of the world.
Then he made the world round.
So I asked, "so where do you find obedient men"?
Quick as a flash she replied "in a cage",
Not at all what I was expecting her to say, but I did find that rather hot.
I've been free all the Easter weekend (on her instruction), but I just got told off for that, put back in the flat and told to expect punishment. I have a lose lose situation here. (Or since Im thoroughly enjoying this a win win).
The flat is now her go to cage, i seem to be spending most of the time in it. I must say its comfortable, easy to keep clean and she loves it.
So happy my wife is enjoying the cage, i love her to bits.
Preparing to go away for a couple of week I was instructed to pack the full kit, thats all four sized cages and a few other bits, plus a riding crop to take with us. Surprised is an understatement but I duly did that, and laid the crop on the bags.
Next morning as im loading the car a tap on the window and a wave calls me upstairs to find her hold the crop waiting for me. "Strip" was all she said and then gave me what she felt was enough marks to last the trip plus extras for being what she said was slow.
Then i was handed the crop to put back and told to unpack the cages "as ive given you plenty to remember whilst sitting in the car". And she had, with the marks lastiing the next week.
The two weeks have been spent unlocked, but teased mercilessly some days. Two days ago I was told I could look forward to the flat when I got home, and last evening it duly went on. Well that was a challenging night. After two weeks of standing to pee, having a normal appearance to go straight into a flat cage with no visible or touchable penis was a real challenge and just like the first time I wore it, except I'd got used to being free. I dont know how many times I woke with a wood and this morning im as horny as hell, but there's no sign of relief or my 2nd full O of 2025.
So very happy to be back in a cage, i've really missed it.
I was hoping for a change, but it seems the flat is her firm favourite an so ive spent the last week in it apart from a trip to the dentist. Its intersting how things change, The value of journalling here is that you can look back and remind yourself how the journey has developed.
So I can see back in early December she told me I could get a 2cm cage, the smallest ever and when it arrived I was shocked how small it was. That was the final cage so far as she was concerned and it felt pretty extreme to me with everything squashed in.
Then in early April she went and bought me a flat, (or 0.4cm) ;cage, a spked cartwheel design and that's so very special for her that shes had me in that pretty much ever since. Its also soecial to.me but as she has complete control over which cage I wear thats irrelevant.
We dont have any targets, i don't count days, theres no agreement, its just developed that she has complete control and I wear and do what she orders. In daily life we discuss as normal, but if she issues an order I must obey without question or hesitation. She's also made it very clear that the status is the same, caged or not. Only one figure I'm well aware of, is that I've cum.once this year. We both know its a game of role play and either of us can stop at any time, but right now its an important part of our lives and we are both enjoying it.
I suspect that had I tried to discuss rules or targets that wouldn't have worked for us, every couple is different and you have to find what works for you.
I was allowed to sleep without it on Saturday night, woke in the morning with a rock solid wood. Moving around I caught a nipple with a finger nail and that nearly sent me over thr edge, inevitably i couldn't help playing quietly as she slept, a dangerous game since thats forbidden but I couldn't resist it. After a while I so very nearly came i got up and walked that dog, that would have meant a very serious disussion, as it was I confessed and was ordered .straight back into the cage, with further punishment promised, not sure what that means. So this morning I've woken feeling much the same as yesterday but absolutely powerless to do anything about it thanks to a very small peice of stainless steel.
