[chickenchowmein] The one year challenge

[chickenchowmein]

Before I get started, I'd just like to say that all comments are appreciated. I've been doing this for a few months straight and on and off over the last few years, but I still consider myself new to it. I'm learning things constantly.

Okay, here we go! I've been in 24/7 chastity for two months now. As I said, my wife and I have played around with it here and there over the years. And at the beginning of this year I asked her to keep me in chastity without any orgasms for the entire year. She wasn't excited about it, but thoroughly didn't mind either. She generally prefers that I don't cum during sex anyway (less clean-up, she says). Se we wrote up a contract (ChatGBT was surprising helpful!) and both signed it. In general, I am to stay locked all the time and cannot ask to be unlocked or when I might be (same applies to cumming, duh). Only when she decides she wants to unlock me do I get to be. She keeps the key hidden.

I could literally write a book as my first post, but I'll try to keep it reasonably short. My brain immediately loses interest when my eyes land on a book-report length post. Unless y'all prefer long posts. Please let me know. Thanks for reading.

[NoControlNeeded]

Best of luck! Looking forward to hearing about your journey!

[Tongue+groove]

A full year. Sounds like you made it to the big leagues. Just think when you make the year the next step is how many years can you go?

[denied_one]

And at the beginning of this year I asked her to keep me in chastity without any orgasms for the entire year.

In general, I am to stay locked all the time and cannot ask to be unlocked or when I might be (same applies to cumming, duh)

This immediately begs confusion, at least from this reader. You say you asked Her to keep you in chastity without any orgasms for the whole of the year. However further down in your chatGBT contract you say you are to be locked at all times and cannot ask to be unlocked or when you may be...same applied to cumming....

But you said you asked to be withheld for the year so why is "same applies to cumming" said in the same breadth as not allowed to asked to be unlocked or when. Are you insinuating that She can still allow you to cum?

Clearly Her call, but the two ideas deviate from one another.

Or are you saying you just aren't allowed to ask to cum cos you know you won't for the whole year?


Sorry for the question, if the answer is quite clear and I've just missed it lol

[chickenchowmein]

denied_one, I believe you miss read it. It says that I can't ask for it or inquire as to when I next might.

[denied_one]

Sorry

[chickenchowmein]

Typically, we have what we call 'playtime' on Fridays. Yes, we plan our sexual escapades in advance. We're old. Anyway, but she's going out of town Friday afternoon. So we had playtime tonight... except, apparently, I've been talking about sex too much this week. So, it was all about her. No attention for me. Not even a little. But I definitely feel like I've learned my lesson. We even added it as an addendum to our contract, that I cannot talk about sex or sexual stuff, outside of playtime. I'm allowed to send her one text about it, incase there's anything she needs to know in advance. Otherwise, it has to wait.

[denied_one]

I should have added

A mod will have to change it but you are supposed to bracketize your name in the subject line of your journey thread [chickenchowmein] The One Year Challenge

Like that

[chickenchowmein]

Sorry

[Atone]

Sorry

no worries, I fixed it.