"Hello world" thread

[Hmdlock]

Hello
Couple from Wakefield Yorkshire been doing this maybe a year but new to the forum

[Tongue+groove]

Welcome

[hot-robot]

Long-time lurker here. I’ve only done short stints in the cage since 2008. My current go to cage is a Cobra S+ wide with the #3 ring (1⅞in). Considering down-sizing.

My partner never seemed particularly interested. She’s pretty Vanilla, except for a bit of exhibitionism risk. I’ve gone 30 days without a full orgasm, but uncaged. Most of my lockups have been while she travels for business.

Currently I’m on day 12 caged and 5 days since my last orgasm. She seems into it. Have we turned a corner? I’ve thought that before. The main difference this time is that I’ve resolved not to ask her to do anything, which can suggest she is doing something wrong. The motto is “she can’t do keyholding wrong.” This has been really good for both of us. I’m just rolling with it and she has surprised me multiple times.

We’ve been discussing doing all of January. I may start a journey thread.

[Tongue+groove]

The motto is “she can’t do keyholding wrong.

Good one. It’s been a good year for us and she will still have concerns that she’s not doing it right. I’m going to steal your phrase if I may.

Oh and welcome on board.

[hot-robot]

The motto is “she can’t do keyholding wrong.

As an example, for Christmas I could get an orgasm, a chance to go down on her, two more weeks in the cage or nothing sexy at all. They all work as long as we accept she can’t do it wrong.

It’s the questioning that makes it not work.

[Mr Pickle]

Welcome everyone.

[KHEmmi]

Welcome to all the new people.
Looking forward to reading about your experiences.
And answering questions as best I can if you have any.
Great place to find lots of info and helpful people

[LateBloomer]

Hello world

My wife and I are late 40s, early 50s. Been together over 25 years. Both of our personalities are on the introverted side and we are fairly vanilla yet most of our lives have been what I call lifestyle-adjacent. Our friend group has always been fairly uninhibited people with a few active in the swinging community. About 10 years or so ago we had some experiences that were a bit of an eye opener for me. Just a few weeks ago I brought up chastity and it seemed to go okay. Wasn’t freaked out and seemed open to at least experimenting. Been slow going so far due to life’s normal distractions, so im letting her think about it and not pressuring her but excited to see what happens now

[LockedUpIn716WNY]

Hello, world!

I'm here as a 31M who's been interested in trying chastity caging for a long time and finally decided to give it a shot earlier this year. Self-locking currently, I've been trying to navigate this on my own quite a bit but decided to finally turn to the community for guidance and what not.

[Lotus_Eater]

So I'm very active on r/chastitytraining where I try to help as many people as I can find comfortable cages but it would be nice to find a place with more people my age and conversations that are more relevant to me.

I've been living lifestyle chastity with my wife for 7 months now and my kink seems to be buying custom cages.

Anyway, looking forward to engaging with all of you