"Hello world" thread

[Herman]

Hello world! I'm Herman, just Herman. New to chastity.

I fantasized about it for a long time, but never had the courage to bring it up to my wife, until recently. She was adamantly opposed to it at first, but gradually, after a period of about 4 months, she could see it meant a lot to me (because I brought up the subject from time to time), agreed to let me get a cage and wear it for a while.

That was 6 weeks ago. I have tried at least a half dozen cages (currently wearing a metal Cobra small size). My wife and KH is now quite happy with the situation. We've been married for 52 years. We have always had an enjoyable sex life, but as many men on this site have said, their sex drive was more than their wives, and that was (frustratingly) true in my case. Well. since I started wearing a cage, my wife has 'ordered' me to go down on her more in the last 6 weeks than in the previous couple of years. She confided in me just last night that she is enjoying not having to have 'duty sex' every time I get horny. She says she is free now to enjoy sex without having to reciprocate. I'm seeing a new woman! I love what this has done for us! She also enjoys teasing me a lot, something she has never done very much, but now does it all the time.

I have been lurking here for awhile, thought it was about time to introduce myself. I have learned a lot from all of the reading, and it has helped me a great deal with all of the myriad feelings that chastity brings up.

Thanks for letting me be part of the group - Herman

[playmatez]

Hi there

I was very nervous for some time to bring up chastity devices to my partner. Tried a couple in secret that were not so good.
Decided to take the plunge two weeks ago and opened a cage ordered online with my partner watching. Later that weekend, spent time doing her finger nails and toe nails and asked if it was OK to either wear a cock ring or cage - she chose cage, to my delight.
Have been wearing on weekends and out of work hours and have been enjoying - a few bumps in the road - I intend to write in my journey as am looking forward to sharing experiences and learn from those a little further in their journey.

Cheers

[Tongue+groove]

Wow, several newcomers recently. Rather new-noncomers. Except for Ms. Laura of course. Nice to see a new kh. Hopefully one day Mrs. G will be here to.

Welcome to each of you, enjoy your journeys.

[Kinky Playground]

Hello dear community! I'm a newbie here, although I've been around the chastity world for about 3 years (thanks to my fiancé, for which I'm extremely grateful). On chastity forums I mainly look for inspiration; new, interesting contacts and curiosities from the world of erotica (like the post about DreamLover 2000, just woah, that someone produces such things).

[countmeout]

Hi everyone! Just signed up. Been into chastity for a few years already but just recently took the plunge and got a cage. Well... a few cages... but i think my pink holy trainer v3 nub knockoff fits me pretty good. The goal is to find a keyholder gf irl and to keep myself denied for longer than a couple of days

[sideswords]

Hello, new to chastity, decided a few weeks back to try it and absolutely loved it. I'm self locked, this is more a thing for me and I'm looking to learn more about the practical aspects of staying locked. Making friends who I can discuss safely and learn about different cages, I want to get a few to try out.

[Mr Pickle]

Hi everyone! Just signed up. Been into chastity for a few years already but just recently took the plunge and got a cage. Well... a few cages... but i think my pink holy trainer v3 nub knockoff fits me pretty good. The goal is to find a keyholder gf irl and to keep myself denied for longer than a couple of days

Try not to use that as a chat up line. Or a condition to keep her if you find someone that wants to be with you. Its just a kink afterall. Most of my kinks stay in my head. I would rather be loved than locked if I had to chose.

Hope all works out well for you.

[ARK]

Ditto to Mr Pickles comments

Looking for a girl friend. Go old school and start slow. Test the waters before introducing any kink.

[Tongue+groove]

Most of my kinks stay in my head. I would rather be loved than locked if I had to chose.

Solid words of wisdom. A significant other will lock you because they love you. It would be rather odd for someone to love you because you’re locked. Chaste yes, locked no.

[Polemanme]

Good evening I think I might have already joined here or at least tried to last year but screwed things up badly and cannot access my login. Hopefully be a little better this time. I am very much a light weight wehen it comes to chastity and have a wife who has no interest in sex whatsoever so cannot introduce more into my days. I love the feel of chastity and enjoy being guided tghrough a lock up inspired by someone elses ideas or instructions. I suppose this is my reason for being here to find anyone willing to indukge me in setting me a few tasks while chaste.