[Holdy] The Honest DIYer

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atxmtb wrote: Thu Oct 17, 2024 6:01 pm I don't understand. Where was the pee? Inside the cage? Or in your bladder? Why did it go on the floor and not in the toilet? I'm confused.
I’m not sure where the pee came from. Trapped under the foreskin? Trapped in the tube? Definitely not in the bladder.

It went on the floor because I was standing by the bathroom sink in the process of removing the cage for a hygiene and health check.

It hasn’t happened again. I’m now using a cobra and ensuring the foreskin is retracted when putting the cage on.
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The journey continues……

I received the nano cobra.

I’m kinda disappointed to say….. I had no trouble putting it on. Fits like a glove. And I feel more confident that I can avoid….. accidents.

Imma not gonna be greedy and opt for a nub. Because…. If that also fits without effort….. I’ll develop a severe complex.

(That said, I see that others, perhaps quite generously proportioned, easily enjoy a nub).
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easily enjoy a nub)
I never saw the nub coming. My ego was bigger than it needed to be. I now prefer it, but can also easily wear a shorter one.

It’s interesting how small you can get when flaccid and not lose any erection size. Don’t be surprised if one day you notice a little extra room in your nano.

If it happens then the chastity fairy is telling you it’s time to join the nub club. :lol:
She says ‘it’s cute’ in the nub. ;)
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Day 3 of nano.

It’s good. Actually, I find it more comfortable than the shorts.

That said, even I, short as I am, notice the glans up the front.

I think that maybe one day the nub may be called for. To truly put it in its place.

I’m finding that I’m noticing the cage less and less. Which is kinda good and kinda a loss.

My learning curve continues.
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Holdy wrote: Sat Oct 19, 2024 6:57 am I’m finding that I’m noticing the cage less and less. Which is kinda good and kinda a loss.
Those Cobras are different. I have the Nub and after wearing it a while I found myself not noticing that it was there at all, exception during those involuntary erection attempts that it prevented.

I came to refer to the Nub as the 'deep vacuum of space' because I literally couldn't feel a thing, which is frustrating in its own totally different way.

Yes, the Nub will hold you still. It sounds like you're already moving in that direction. Good luck.
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Well. That wasn’t a clever idea of mine.

I tended to my daily health and hygiene inspection. Which of course means taking the cage off.

That done, I thought I’d give it some ‘free play time’. And I felt a bit tired. So with it still free I lay down, with my iPad, intending to read. But my fingers wandered downwards and to browser. In no time I was out of control. One thing led to another.

But. I managed to ruin it. Completely. It was very angry with me and has helpfully been sulking ever since. Still, that was hyper dangerous.

The nub beckons.
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I had to have a rest. I….. damaged….. myself with the nano. I’ll spare you the details other than to say I considered putting a bandaid on 🤔.

I’m back on ‘short’ and taking greater care to ensure everything is in the right place.
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Um, I have a Cobra and am now trying to figure out how it could cause injury other than a slight pinch while pushing the cage tabs into the base ring while putting it on. Might the details serve as a cautionary tale for me and other Cobra owners?
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WifeIsVanilla wrote: Thu Nov 07, 2024 7:38 am Might the details serve as a cautionary tale for me and other Cobra owners?
Ummm. Ok.
Cw: you might wince.

It was a combination of things. Yes, pinching of shaft meeting ring but also on the shaft further down between the cobra ‘scales’. There was an area where it looked like I’d taken a cheese grater to it!!! Then, also, I’d applied ‘further control’ in the form of a leather bootlace looped through the ring and around the waist, resulting in further constrictive pinching/tugging/directional control.

Result: bleeding.

For those in the U.K., the words of captain mannering come to mind…… You Stupid Boy. 😊

So, my painful words of wisdom…. Use plenty of lubricant. Check nothing pinches. Don’t truss yourself up.
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Sound advice. The surface of the Cobra is anything but slick, and the cage tabs that go into the base ring are very tight on mine. So, I liberally lube my entire penis and scrotum plus the inside of the Cobra, making sure not to miss the tabs and the slots they go into.
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