"Hello world" thread

[gobuzzgox]

Hello, world!

I got interested in chastity 6-8 years ago and finally purchased a stainless steel cage off Amazon for cheap just over four years ago. I wore it in the daytime when I was in the home office to see if this was really something that was more than a passing interest. It was a pretty good fit, but since then, I got another stainless steel cage that fits even better and uses a hinge lock rather than a padlock. I told my wife about my interest and let her discover me locked up several weeks later. She was very understanding and gracious about it but wondered about my timing (we're in our early 60s but feel like we're more in our 40s) and why I didn't introduce it sooner. I explained that I didn't know I was interested in it until recently.

She is somewhat reluctant about the whole KH thing, although she plays along and hides the key most of the time when I lock up. She has on a few occasions said I should lock up; she's still working on her authority there and, in fact, perceives that I am locking her out. I am locked up roughly 30-40% of the time; typically, for 2-5 weeks in a row, and then I'll go for about as long unlocked. She enjoys the attention (I have always been attentive to her needs, but chastity certainly amplifies that). Unfortunately, due to body chemistry, we are in a dead bedroom for awhile now, though we are very affectionate and physical, but her vaginal dryness and low labido has been an issue we are working on.

She likes the secrecy that we share of this kink, and she likes the verbal tease (she refers to me having a small penis rather than "a real cock", though she is pretty quick to say that I'm not especially small and have decent girth) aspect. I am 5.25"L x 5"G, and she has said I am her second smallest partner, though she's only had one notably large partner. Just yesterday, she said my girth and motion are awesome (notably not commenting on my length, lol). Anyway, all this to say, I know I'm a bit below average in length and a bit above average in girth, so she offers some mild SPH but is not really concerned about size.

So, we have agreed that she has a permanent hall pass, though she hasn't used it as far as I know. I think she appreciates the chastity angle as a way to have some fun while we figure out the issues that have caused us to miss out on PIV sex.

That's a lot, so I'll end with that for now.

Cheers!

[Mr Pickle]

though we are very affectionate and physical, but her vaginal dryness and low labido has been an issue we are working on

Cheers!

My wife doesn't have these problems.. But she doesn't let me put it in there most of the time. Hands are good enough as far as she is concerned, preferably whilst she plays her game on her mobile. less effort for her/ fine by me because it happens more often and it feels very nice after being locked. she has become very good at this.

obviously I get more than this.. A lot more, It is offered rather than my badgering for it like I did in the old days.

Mainly though. Sex is about giving her attention when she wants it. in her words "I'm on tap".

I think it all fell into place when I stepped back and let it progress at its own speed. slowly. I stopped pushing and I stopped nudging or asking if there was anything I could do sexually for her. Because in such cases.. It was still about me and what I wanted.

C found her own ways to entertain herself and then the speed picked up quite a bit.

To begin with. No interest. It was just another chore.

good luck.

[CoraWm1118]

New here, thanks for the add. Cora and I just started chastity for locktober, so we are NOOBs. I'm wearing a small/45mm inescapable houdini I got off of Lockthecock. I'm 52, she's 44. We are slowly building up my hours to days eventually. Currently working throught the ball burn right now. She and I are enjoying the lock up banter. We'll I guess that's my intro.

Wm

[Mr Pickle]

Welcome. Have fun.

[abdiaprboy]

Just saying hi. I am from NJ and new to this.
Peter

[WifeIsVanilla]

Just saying hi. I am from NJ and new to this.
Peter

What general area within NJ?

[ARK]

WifeIsVanilla,
You are up early or are like me, getting off of work (graveyard shift)

[Tongue+groove]

There have been a few newbi’s recently. If I haven’t welcomed you yet then please accept my apologies and welcome.

[kohaku]

I am a mid-50s man just getting into chastity with my wife of 30 years.

[ARK]

Welcome kohaku.

Where do you live? There is a good topic called demographic. It is always a good safe post