Mr Pickle wrote: ↑Sun Aug 11, 2024 4:35 am
Welcome @khbex and @LzmrdWizard
Whatever you need to know, or if you're not sure.
Don't be affraid to ask.
Oh thank you!
I don't have any specific questions yet, except to clarify the size of the cage you had, including the catheter.
Because I bought a well-made copy, as it seems to me.
It is interesting to find out how close it is to the reference values.
Do you mean the longer cage design? I have a few and C is prefering the small at the moment.
I dont think there is an original for that as such. This design seems to original in China anyway. One of their own.
Initially it was only available through ternence website or ternence via amazon. Ive seen ot on ebay recently.
Ternence measurments are available here.
I will get the vernia caliper out for my own actual cage measurments and post the on the "shocking truth" blog in members. That one show most of my cages. All with uretherals.
Me. "I only got 30 seconds, that's not fair". C. "life's not fair, suck it up"
Hello !! Excited about joing this chat forum. Live in Ny,Ny Nd brand new at the chastity experience. 9 days and counting. Any advice or wordd of wisdom please hit me up!
Hello all. I am 57 and have been together with my wife for 35 years. She has a few years more than I do and we were starting to drift apart intamatly. She agreed to be my kh three and a half years ago. She is as you say very vanilla and has had some struggles trying understanding it. She does try to go along with it but also says that it doesn’t really do anything for her. I am grateful to those of you who share your experience and knowledge in this lifestyle. Thank you.
I have been a very long time reader and lurker and up until now I don’t think I was mature or experienced enough to be in a position to offer thoughts or experiences that might contribute to the groups here, but realized now that we all have our own interpretations and practices that works for us in all this and I feel at this juncture I am now able to be a confident contributor.
My wife and I have been active in chastity probably since around 1995 – 1998 ish with various levels of activity but seriously since 2003 I’d say. We have been married and have a family all through this and we are as devoted to each other as when we were teens….possibly more so now, on a deeper level.
I am and have been in a MM Jailbird for a long time – lets say I think I recall buying it when they were maybe around $120…taxes and shipping in? So a while now!
My gorgeous wife never really had much of a physical drive but since menopause she unfortunately has a condition that makes PIV quite uncomfortable for her. So since that time I committed to being under her key as a way that we can continue our closeness where she doesn’t feel the guilt or pressure to perform the ‘duties’ of a wife so to speak.
So for us it’s a life choice and a relations builder and not seen as a passing kink/DS/Slave etc. I get released maybe 2 or 3 times a year. Every day we tell each other how much we love each other and chastity is our way of expressing that
I look forward to chatting with you all
BritCanUsa
"I dont know why you are so focused on when you had your last orgasm......just accept it was your LAST ORGASM and move on"
I must say there are many of us here in similar situations. Age, years married and post menopause. And if you’re lucky a surgeon hasn’t done any hormonal destruction yet.
Side note: To you guys who still get the 5 day closed for business sign hung on the door hug your girl and dote on her.
Many thanks for the warm welcoming comments and likes
I think with all respect to the established and knowledgeable folks here, I think I will chip in on others postings first......im not the kind of 'know it all' person or shout it from the roof tops person....im more of a quiet confidence.
As time goes I will drop a line or two on how we interpret chastity into our relationship; how my wife locks me or any the fun rituals we all have and in general how we make it work for us.
Suffice to say at this early stage that I'm 24/7 for most part of the year with only a day off between lockdowns
Again many thanks for the welcome
"I dont know why you are so focused on when you had your last orgasm......just accept it was your LAST ORGASM and move on"
