So nearly 2 weeks now
What have I noticed? Cages are hard to get right! I bought a small holy trainer and wore that and found it really comfortable- but it would slip down quite easily and expose me a little and so that was annoying.
I then received a silicone CB in the post and that was awful and disregarded that within seconds.
I then received a steel bird cage and that has been awesome - but sadly the weight of it makes it again slip
I have on order a HT Nub and a Nano - so see what those bring...
The one thing I did notice though is after 3 days of not cumming - my balls tend to swell and the cages stay in better... plus my cock stays in a more natural state and less shrivel lol
My wife is also starting to get better - as I said, she is a bit vanilla - but this experience is slowly bringing her out of her shell.
We received the steel bird cage on Saturday and she immediately locked me up and said this time it would be for 6 days
I do ask her things to see her response... for example “Can you release me?” “Can I cum?” Etc etc and so far her responses are great
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she told me in no uncertain terms that I would be locked for the 6 days - although she did use her magic wand on my balls tonight and I came in the cage
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which was a first for me and thrilling
Whilst in bed, I was talking about chastity and the like with her and asked her about tasks, punishments etc and she said she will start to think about that more and I said what she would do after the 6 days are up? And she replied “you will be locked up for a lot longer!!”
Just to also add - our relationship is so much better for this and it has really helped us to start having good conversation again
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and in only a short space of time
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