Questions

[MrsRindyNaive]

Hey, my husband and I have gotten into male chasity recently. I've had him locked up on and off now for a month. I think the longest stretch was 9 days. The biggest problem I'm running into is... I'm extremely turned on by him being locked up! So I unlock him just so he can fuck me just the way I like it. Which means our repeated attempts at a break in period have failed miserably. Any suggestions? How long should a break in period be? Should I let him out at all? Even just to fuck me, and not get off?

[slave d]

The whole thing in my view is that YOU are satisfied !!!

d

[cottus]

What slave d said. Sounds like it's having a indirect benefit on your relationship.

[michael]

Seven to ten days continuously in chastity belt is safe. After this period his penis should be erect while. Tenth minutes or more. This can be for tease or intercourse. He does not have to cum. After that You can go back Him in chastity belt without orgasm. After a long period of Denial (month or two)ruined orgasm is better solution.
Long term orgasm denial helps men to better concentrate for needs of his wife, and to forget about self orgasm. You can have penetrative sex, and when his penis in chastity belt. My wife loves chin dildo. With him I can fuck and lick her and the same time. We have intercourse once or twice a month, and when a special occasion comes. Emla cream reduces the sensitivity of my penis and helps me to not ejaculate during intercourse.

[Dusty]

Hi MrsRindyNaive,
I agree with slave d that it's all up to you and what you want for your satisfaction. I have only been wearing the device at times over the last 6-8 months or so and I haven't even quite lasted 9 days yet so good on both of you!

[Shepherdsflock]

The whole thing in my view is that YOU are satisfied !!!

d

Slaved d said it perfectly. Male chastity for most of us is about pleasing our wife. If having your husband locked up turns you on and makes you want sex with him, great! You found something you both like. And once you're satisfied, lock him back up immediately until you want him again. You'll both enjoy it.

For my wife and I, she has always hated intercourse and we have found that having me locked allows her to concentrate on having fun and enjoying sex without the pain and discomfort of intercourse. And, like you, she gets way more turned on when I'm locked. It just doesn't make her want intercourse.

Male chastity can really liven up a couple's love life. Enjoy it and have fun with it.

[chastehub]

i agree with the others that are encouraging you to do what works for you; in the end, it is about you both having fun, better sex, increased intimacy, improved communications, etc. As long as you're both happy (albeit one of you might be a bit frustrated), then you're doing it right. And honestly, i've never heard of a break in period.

You didn't mention if during your sessions you allow him to cum, but being allowed out of the cage for some PIV play but no orgasm, and then locked back up, is the ultimate tease. You'll drive him wild.

Have fun with it; there is plenty of time to explore longer lockups.

[Locked by LRC]

... And honestly, i've never heard of a break in period...

The only break in period I've heard of is him getting comfortable wearing the cage. After that, It's game on; whatever, whenever, however, and as often MrsRindyNaive wants.

[Nfrgp]

My KH said "...its so true having your hubby locked up does make the wife almost continuously horny ... but she'll soon get over the need to let him cum and just enjoy it all for herself!!". For us 12 to 16 days between releases (ruined or full) seems to be working the best. Nightly full body massages and oral are the standard order in our house.

[collegeslave]

You could always try using a delay spray and a condom. It has worked for my fiancee and myself if youre interested in denying him for longer periods of time.