"Hello world" thread
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Hello! I'm new here. Been locking myself since 2021!
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Hello. I'm new here! I'm a real person. 

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Hello, I'm new here! I introduced myself but it didn't post.
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Hi everyone,
My wife and I live in the mid-Atlantic states and have an extremely normal looking, outwardly conservative looking life. We have been occasionally locking me up for about two years, she adopted a female-led, dominant role in our relationship about a year ago, and I've been locked up evenings and weekends for about the last month. She started wearing a key on a necklace about four months ago and is now wearing one all the time.
I couldn't be happier, really; we're moving ahead on our own pace, but I couldn't have dreamed that we'd get even this far, or enjoy it this much.
My wife and I live in the mid-Atlantic states and have an extremely normal looking, outwardly conservative looking life. We have been occasionally locking me up for about two years, she adopted a female-led, dominant role in our relationship about a year ago, and I've been locked up evenings and weekends for about the last month. She started wearing a key on a necklace about four months ago and is now wearing one all the time.
I couldn't be happier, really; we're moving ahead on our own pace, but I couldn't have dreamed that we'd get even this far, or enjoy it this much.
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Hello everyone! New to posting here, although have lurked for some time while hoarding advice. UK based, mid 40s, married with 3 kids. Been fascinated by chastity since I can remember but only experimenting for 2 years, just by myself for the moment although my wife does know about it. I have been self-locked 24/7 for the last month and absolutely loving it - seeing no downsides for now! 
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Several new ones. Best of luck with your journey.
She says ‘it’s cute’ in the nub. 

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Hello everyone. New to the site but not to chastity. Started many moons ago in a CB3000 and have since graduated to and experimented with assorted steel cages which have proved to be far more robust. Self-locked since losing my KH during Covid, but ever the optimist in life and keen to find another as there is no reward more meaningful than surrendering to a KH for whom chastity has meaning. I hope that all here find both frustration and fulfillment in their journeys with chastity.
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After lurking for a year, I wanted to jump in, well at least dip my toes in.
My wife and I have been playing with denial for too many years to mention.
Though not caged, I'm pretty much pussy free these days, with fauxing and vibrators being central to our sex life.
You're all lovely people and this feels like a really welcoming place.
My wife and I have been playing with denial for too many years to mention.
Though not caged, I'm pretty much pussy free these days, with fauxing and vibrators being central to our sex life.
You're all lovely people and this feels like a really welcoming place.
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Over the past few years, I have become more and more aware of this kind of dynamic.CagelessWonder wrote: ↑Mon Jul 07, 2025 9:38 am Though not caged, I'm pretty much pussy free these days, with fauxing and vibrators being central to our sex life.
Interestingly, my wife considers foxing to be "regular PIV" for us, and does not consider us to have a "No penetration" relationship.
Tom Allen
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I think my wife would probably agree with your wife!Tom Allen wrote: ↑Mon Jul 07, 2025 11:16 amOver the past few years, I have become more and more aware of this kind of dynamic.CagelessWonder wrote: ↑Mon Jul 07, 2025 9:38 am Though not caged, I'm pretty much pussy free these days, with fauxing and vibrators being central to our sex life.
Interestingly, my wife considers foxing to be "regular PIV" for us, and does not consider us to have a "No penetration" relationship.![]()