wife milks me and not allowed to orgasm any advice?
Posted: Tue Sep 08, 2015 8:45 pm
hello all. I am new to this sort of thing but I have some questions/concerns. my wife is becoming more d0minant all the time. when we first started seeing each other we had what one would call a traditional type sex life. we had intercourse and a bit of foreplay and that concluded what we did in the bedroom. over the years (7) she has become increasingly d0minant both inside and outside the bedroom. she has told me that she wants a completely female controlled relationship and that if I was to be with her things needed to change. many things have changed, we always have had a good sex life and has become better over the years. I more or less do everything for her. I do most of the chores, I go to the store when we need things and I always am the one to cook as well as get up and to grab things for her rather than her do it herself. I can live with this. in fact I think in many ways the female should be in charge of many aspects in the relationship. I think the male should only take charge when it comes to physical protection. other than that women have a better handle on everyday things and in a lot of ways can make better choices. I love her to death.
what is going on is she wants to change our sex life completely as of late. she claims that I am a better husband when I don't get any sexual release. I pleaded that men need to release their semen or it builds up and becomes very frustrating. also it is not good to hold it very long health wise for the prostate. she has been talking to people about this and was told that men merely need to release their build up but don't need to ejaculate to do this. because I am more attentive when I am sexually frustrated she wants me like that as much as possible. just to go out and say it... she wants to milk my prostate and let my semen flow out without ever getting to orgasm. my heart sunk, especially when she purchased this chastity device that she put on me while I was sleeping!!
YES THATS RIGHT! I woke up with morning wood and it hurt so much. she milked me that morning but told me I wont get it again like that unless its sunday evening when she decided to designate that time to drain my semen out and never taking off the cage. she also made it clear that I am to consume my semen as a tribute to her power and authority. I love her and I know it is necessary or I would find a way to release on way or another im sure. we argued about it but in the end she isn't going to let me out ever again. she thinks that men don't need to orgasm often if at all and that it is only for the w0man's pleasure. the only reason otherwise is unless the w0man is trying to get pregnant, the male can ejaculate inside... I will do anything for her but this really hurts when I get hard. I asked her about how we are going to have sex for her pleasure. she bought some items to replace my penis in the bedroom. something that goes on my face.. like a facial dildo thing as well as a strapon so she can still have sex with me. obviously she wears the pants and I do trust her judgement, I just don't like it in this case. I am here to ask is this the beginning of a b.d.s.m life? should I expect things to change even more? I am uneasy about how frustrating my life might be from now on.
what is going on is she wants to change our sex life completely as of late. she claims that I am a better husband when I don't get any sexual release. I pleaded that men need to release their semen or it builds up and becomes very frustrating. also it is not good to hold it very long health wise for the prostate. she has been talking to people about this and was told that men merely need to release their build up but don't need to ejaculate to do this. because I am more attentive when I am sexually frustrated she wants me like that as much as possible. just to go out and say it... she wants to milk my prostate and let my semen flow out without ever getting to orgasm. my heart sunk, especially when she purchased this chastity device that she put on me while I was sleeping!!
YES THATS RIGHT! I woke up with morning wood and it hurt so much. she milked me that morning but told me I wont get it again like that unless its sunday evening when she decided to designate that time to drain my semen out and never taking off the cage. she also made it clear that I am to consume my semen as a tribute to her power and authority. I love her and I know it is necessary or I would find a way to release on way or another im sure. we argued about it but in the end she isn't going to let me out ever again. she thinks that men don't need to orgasm often if at all and that it is only for the w0man's pleasure. the only reason otherwise is unless the w0man is trying to get pregnant, the male can ejaculate inside... I will do anything for her but this really hurts when I get hard. I asked her about how we are going to have sex for her pleasure. she bought some items to replace my penis in the bedroom. something that goes on my face.. like a facial dildo thing as well as a strapon so she can still have sex with me. obviously she wears the pants and I do trust her judgement, I just don't like it in this case. I am here to ask is this the beginning of a b.d.s.m life? should I expect things to change even more? I am uneasy about how frustrating my life might be from now on.