Making me think!

[Locked by LRC]

This problem that LRC and I are having with her feeling bad about having an orgasm when I don’t, has made me realize something. Now that I’m in chastity instead of thinking about sex, I’m beginning to think about sex. I always thought they were one and the same. Before, thinking about sex was how I could get an orgasm. Now, thinking about sex is how I can get LRC to feel comfortable with an orgasm. Now I’m thinking about how to get her to spread her legs for a whole different reason. I’m beginning to think of sex from her perspective, something I’ve never done before. This is a whole new concept for me. Damm, making a man do all this touchy-feely thinking. Just wondering if this is an awakening that other guys go through?

[Dev]

I don't know if you read my blog yesterday, but I wrote a SWOT analysis about chastity. There were lots of great comments including this one just posted, which is what I think you are getting at, Locked:

(Chastity) Allows the couple to experience a sexual dynamic not focused on the male orgasm (denied) or the male libido (heightened and constant) of the couple. This can impact frequency, but sexual cycles are more defined by the female.

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[Shane67]

Not only does it make me think differently about sex, it also apparently makes me blab incessantly, especially after sex. My wife has said, somewhat tongue-in-cheek, that she liked it better when I just rolled over and passed out.

[Dev]

It's your feminine side coming through, Shane. You're learning how much fun it is to process things...

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[Atone]

It's your feminine side coming through, Shane. You're learning how much fun it is to process things...

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Dev,

Congratulations on your 1000th post.

-A

[Dev]

Oh, thank you! I didn't even notice!

Now, 1001!

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[wishful4]

Dev,

Congrats, also, on an outstanding blog!

[Tom Allen]

1,000 posts in 6 months?

[Atone]

Actually it's only been 4.

-A

[Tom Allen]

Actually it's only been 4.

-A

Only 4 posts? I'm pretty sure she posts 4x a day!