Stress, long days, and minor health problems have dampened my spirit over the last week, but I now find myself 18 days since my last orgasm, and over a month since my last wank. We had a little more time together tonight, and my dear spouse told me she was inclined to wait at least another week due to cyclical reasons, which perked me up quite a bit. 25 days would be halfway to my all time record.
I find chastity devices kinky red hot, but we have barely dabbled with a CB-6000 over the past month. Still, we have had a lot of fun. I asked my wife what she liked best about having sex without me having an orgasm. She said she finds it hot when I purposefully struggle against climaxing, especially at her request. There is an obviously element of control there, even if it isn't her physically controlling me. We have come a long way since the days when she took my climax as validation of a job well done.