Chastity Forums

Maybe the ratchet (handcuff) base ring?

My KH is good at many things but the use of hand tools (security screw) isn't one of them so I do the removal and instillation at her direction.

I wear a 1.25 inch cage, which needs a bit of squeezing to get on, no way can she put it on as she wouldn't know when its pinching as the two parts come together

I have a BON4M with a hinged ring, I put it on, but my Wife always removes it…. She doesn’t have too many issues with it

I asked her to snap the padlock shut the other day. I had been changing from security screw to padlock to go through security later in the day. I usually padlock it myself but this time i asked her if she wanted the honors. She just reached up and snapped it home but the sensation I felt and heard was amazing. Maybe a new tradition after release. I’ll install the cage but she will lock it home.

Mrs groove has come to realize the importance of doing the actual locking and unlocking. Just last night she sent me to fetch the key so she could unlock me. For the first time she actually removed the device completely. (She fears hurting me) She said that after her back rub and being properly warmed up she expected some piv pleasure. I have not been in there in a month, that’s an eternity for a newbie like me.

For the first time in our journey I didn’t finish until she told me to. And yet I would have been just as excited if she had made stop at any point.

All this because it was her decision. Best release of my life.

My girlfriend is not interested in holding the key. Now instead a female friend holds them for us with my girlfriend's consent. It works so much better for us when my girlfriend doesn't have to think about whether to unlock or not. The lock is always locked instead. End of discussion. I also don't have to think about whether the girlfriend will unlock or not. The chastity is so much more “real” then. Much easier for her and I really can't complain.

SwedInLoriTube wrote: ↑Tue Apr 30, 2024 4:19 am My girlfriend is not interested in holding the key. Now instead a female friend holds them for us with my girlfriend's consent. It works so much better for us when my girlfriend doesn't have to think about whether to unlock or not. The lock is always locked instead. End of discussion. I also don't have to think about whether the girlfriend will unlock or not. The chastity is so much more “real” then. Much easier for her and I really can't complain.

Sorry if I'm being dense, but... who decides when or if to unlock?
Or is it never and the other female just looks after the key, just in case?

Just puzzled as I've never heard of this sort of arrangement before.

My cage uses a padlock. She likes the look. She likes unlocking and removing the cage. She turns it into a major tease. I remove the ring if possible. It works better if I put it back on. She really likes clicking the lock shut though.

KHEmmi wrote: ↑Tue Apr 30, 2024 4:27 am

SwedInLoriTube wrote: ↑Tue Apr 30, 2024 4:19 am My girlfriend is not interested in holding the key. Now instead a female friend holds them for us with my girlfriend's consent. It works so much better for us when my girlfriend doesn't have to think about whether to unlock or not. The lock is always locked instead. End of discussion. I also don't have to think about whether the girlfriend will unlock or not. The chastity is so much more “real” then. Much easier for her and I really can't complain.

Sorry if I'm being dense, but... who decides when or if to unlock?
Or is it never and the other female just looks after the key, just in case?

Just puzzled as I've never heard of this sort of arrangement before.

There is no unlock for sex or release. Only release for 'technical' or medical maintenance. If my girlfriend decides to give me pleasure it's with the tube in place. We never has piv sex. She usually play with my bits to tease me during sex ( = while I satisfy her). I'm wearing a piece of steel tube with a locking pa wand and it can be cleaned without removal. There are pics in the members section.