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Over the last few weeks I've run across several discussions about watching porn while locked. I guess for the younger, single guys on Reddit it much be fun to ramp up the visuals to make being locked exciting, but as an older married guy, I don't need that in my life. Besides, I have an attractive wife who is fully committed to keeping me locked, so in many ways I'm already living in a fantasy.

That said, watching porn never did much for me anyway. To me, the bad acting, unbelievable scenarios, and dopey dialog just kills the mood. Most of my "porn" is inside my head. Years ago I've tried to watch "chastity porn" on the various sites, but it was usually about *removing* the cage, or about humiliating someone. And frankly, in my own head, my version is a lot more dialog and less action. And it always features my favorite actress, Mrs Edge.

So now I'm curious if being locked has affected your porn habits, and if so, how.

No. I watch as much as before. I am an old married guy... why would think only younger single guys would do that? People watch porn for lots of personal reasons. If anything, being in chastity ramps up my need for some kind of stimulation to replace the stimulation my penis is not getting.

When I was in my twenty and thirties I regularly watched porn. But as I got older and the kids got older, I was just too tired to watch porn or have any private time to do so. In my fifties, it just doesn’t do it for me anymore. And then chastity and I still don’t watch any porn. So no, chastity has not affected my porn viewing but a good question. I think the answer would be different if I had a wife that enjoyed viewing porn so maybe ask the key holders?

I still feel like I am in “newbie” status, only started chastity activities last Sept. But thanks for asking the question and providing opportunity to respond.

So far, I have not enjoyed the sensation a release when in the steel cage (CB-x was different). I have ejaculated myself in steel only once when my KH suggested it, but it was not enjoyable. Don’t have a desire to do that unless my KH wants me to. So that affects my interest in getting all wound up to the point of no-return.

When I am caged, I want to be more of a participant and less of an “observer.” I have been 24 hours / day for just a couple weeks and right now the thought of videos depicting sex is not at all enticing. However chastity fiction (and some people’s journals) still stirs the loins pretty darn fast and I grow. I can “get into the scene” easier and more fully, I think. Also an image like those posted by Tom Allen stirs my imagination more than watching someone get jerked off or dominated. It’s the words that accompany that picture that allows me to go into fantasy mode.

The more realistic the written words or images are the more they get me going. I’m also surprised by my strong reactions to sentences people type here about what their key holders say and how much I lust at the thought of those same things being said to me. That said, being ignored by my KH and knowing that it’s her way of being a KH and her happiness to keep the attention on her is incredibly arousing also. She’s basically put me in my place where she wants me, simply by doing nothing. I cannot figure out why it stimulates me so much to think this all through and just fester over it.

When un-caged it is definitely different. I am drawn into porn videos mostly of dominant/submissive activities. I can easily spiral deep for hours. It is like a moth to a flame and I just tune everything else, and everyone else completely out.

It’s interesting how it (chastity) affects my personality, my habits, and my thinking (so far anyway). Sorry to ramble. Thanks again for letting me share.

We watch porn together, often on my insistence, but honestly it's less about me getting aroused and more about the reaction I get off him. I find it's a useful tool if I notice him becoming less enthusiastic, and I have found that it's the "vanilla" porn which gets to him the most, especially more sensual scenarios involving blowjobs and PIV sex. I'd say we do this probably twice a week or so, not more.

He's also free to watch whatever he wants in private, and I know he's a big fan of chastity captions - he's got a big collection on his laptop

I tend not to watch porn on my own any more. I just don't feel the urge.

V

I have the same thing with porn
It never really interested me . Like Tom,
I also have a beautiful attractive wife.
Who has now learned to keep me excited and locked up.
So that she can turn her own fantasies into reality.
And so far loves to make her wishes and fantasies come true.

williebdenied wrote: ↑Tue Mar 14, 2023 7:02 am why would think only younger single guys would do that?

I meant that young, single guys were watching porn while locked in order to increase their horny levels. It just didn't sound like something most of the members on this board would do.

Curiousrk wrote: ↑Tue Mar 14, 2023 8:33 am Also an image like those posted by Tom Allen stirs my imagination more than watching someone get jerked off or dominated. It’s the words that accompany that picture that allows me to go into fantasy mode.

The more realistic the written words or images are the more they get me going.

That's kind of what I was getting at.

Keyholder_V wrote: ↑Tue Mar 14, 2023 9:04 am He's also free to watch whatever he wants in private, and I know he's a big fan of chastity captions - he's got a big collection on his laptop

Hmm, interesting. He actually saves his favorites?

I often watch porn while caged. The thrill is enhanced by my penis trying to become erect and the pressure against the front of the cage (I use a micro-cage with a UI), knowing that there is no way for me to experience an ejaculation. I am also in my mid 60's. Stories have pretty much the same effect, and I have always enjoyed erotica (even written some of my own back in the day), it allows me to put mental pictures of my own to the words, creating the scene that I prefer.

As I get older, my tastes and available time change. Other interests also take up time that was previously used for viewing porn, or reading erotica. Time, age, and the nearly inexhaustible supply of free porn available on the internet have stoked that just a tad, but it remains a minor part of my daily activities.

Eddie

Tom Allen wrote: ↑Tue Mar 14, 2023 12:08 pmHmm, interesting. He actually saves his favorites?

He has a folder full of them, yes. He does occasionally send me one where he particularly likes the message.

V

Keyholder_V wrote: ↑Wed Mar 15, 2023 10:41 am He has a folder full of them, yes. He does occasionally send me one where he particularly likes the message.

Well, I hope some of them are mine!