Nikki6 wrote: ↑Sat Jul 16, 2022 5:23 pm
...I wear the key around my neck. It hangs to my cleavage, and so most of the time (like, at work) the key itself is hidden in my scrubs or whatever. But it's summer, and so when I'm not at work, the key is just dangling there...J thinks that people will see it and might know what it is for. I will say, people do ask. I just tell them it's a key for something important to me. But really, is this kink common enough that people would really guess what I wear a key for? I feel no, but J thinks yes.
There may be some people who recognize it for what it is, but the percentage of the population who might be aware is fairly low. Of course, the likelihood of someone recognizing it depends on the size of the population in your area, how frequently you are out in public and the size of the crowds in which you might find yourself. In a small, rural town the odds are low, in a big city the odds are higher. Although certain elements among those into 'alternative' lifestyles/sexuality are very vocal and one might think that they represent a large segment of the population, they really don't and the majority of the people are mostly clueless.
If you *are* somewhere where there may be some people who recognize the meaning, I'd say that most wouldn't say anything about it, your only clue might be a bit of a smile if you are paying enough attention.
My wife likes to wear the key 'on display'. It is a key to a Master Lock, so it is obviously not jewelry. She has sometimes been asked about it and she usually gives some sort of cryptic answer, though she reserves the right to give a complete explanation if she wants. Of course, there could be a perfectly reasonable explanation, such as it being a key to a gym locker or something like that but the fact that she *doesn't* provide an ordinary explanation is intended to make people wonder. A google or DDG search turns up a bunch of bullshit in the first few results, but further down the page are some that are accurate. Who can say how many people might be curious enough to look hard enough to find the right answer, and consider that it applies to you?
Personally, I find it somewhat arousing to think that someone might see it and know, especially when we are out together, even if they don't say anything about it. I'm sure that I would be some degree of embarrassed if someone were to recognize it and say something, but the thought is also erotic...and even more arousing when I consider the possibility that, if it is another woman they might have an in-depth conversation where she learns some knew ideas or that they might decide to get together to expand horizons and potential activities. I don't think the odds of that happening are very good, but they are certainly non-zero and as long as there is the *possibility* it is arousing. There is also the possibility that another *man* might recognize it, they might start talking, and maybe decide to get together...
Mostly, it serves as a focus point for *me*. Whenever I see it, even if I have temporarily been distracted from the fact that my cock is locked in a cage, it reminds me that it *is* and brings my attention to it and the fact that she has the power and control. It also heightens my awareness of the fact that the key dangling between her breasts probably serves to remind *her* that she has power and control.
In whichever case, it is another tool/tease that helps to keep me aroused, and the more aroused I am the more power it gives her, since she controls what happens with that arousal. The more aroused I am, the more power and control she has. There have been times when she has gotten me so highly aroused that I have wondered if there was anything I *wouldn't* do, if she were to tell me that she would let me out and 'reward' me after...
And to be clear, J can think whatever but I'm so far not concerned enough to hide it. Not that I'm actively looking to out him.
Whatever the possibilities might be, it's one more 'tease' in your toolbox that you can have some fun with, if you want to. My wife likes to tell me when someone has asked her about it, and tease me with the thought that she might, or might have, give(n) the true explanation.