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I started wearing the cage after realizing that I was playing with myself way too much. Even when I had a girlfriend I did it way too often.
Now it's Lent and I try not to ejaculate for the full 40 days, partly due to the use of the cage.
I have also noticed a number of benefits in just a few days:
- I do more sports: This morning I was woken up by an attempted nocturnal erection and couldn't get back to sleep. So I put on some sports clothes and went outside for a short walk.
- I spend less time looking for porn videos on the internet, so I spend more time on more useful things
- I consider a woman more in terms of going to the toilet. Normally I would go for a peek behind a tree during a walk while I have now waited for us both to go in a public toilet.

I've also decided for myself that I should tell a date wearing that I wear the cage at the latest on the 2nd meeting. That way there are no surprises on the next date. The cage is not allowed to be removed during Lent. At other times she has the right to use the key.

Hopefully I can keep wearing the cage for as long as possible because the benefits are really worth it.

Your post got me to look up lent and the term “Asceticism”. Giving up ejaculation is similar to giving up alcohol or food. Hopefully this sacrifice will bring a spiritual transformation.

I wear one because l like the kink of being “kept “ for wife. I can do honor system for a while, I cannot do honor system long term easily alone.... Wife not interested in M C at all. So the kink is for me to challenge myself to stay caged between out love making. Every month or so,,
I’m tired of not being ready when she is. I think she is equally disappointed when that happens as well.
Need to “break things off” with lefty..

I commenced wearing a cage after my wife presented me with one mid play with her lover, i liked it. It removed any insecurity and expectation i had to play in a threesome knowing i was now excluded from this. He liked me wearing it as it gave him exclusive access to my wife, she said she was fine if that was what i wanted but i also know she liked this too, it gave her full control of my sexuality and she could concentrate on him.It also ensured that i was always mentally on a high a plus for me.

It was not long before she commenced allocating me a CB every morning along with my underwear.

I now feel naked without a CB and wear it some nights and everyday. it confirms my status as a cuck husband too.

In a similar boat when it comes to lefty and I's relationship... Was never a big deal, just got bored and took care of it but then I wouldn't be interested that afternoon or evening if KC was, so part of it's for her, but being honest parts for me, the whole thing is like a mind game that we are having fun exploring.

I'm trying to find one that works for me to help me with being physically desensitized. Back in the 70's when I was born, some hospitals used this tool for circumcising babies that but and cauterized at the same time. Well, seems they didn't use it long because it kept burning babies. Myself, the edge of my glans was burned about 80% of the way around. Being just a few days old when it happened, it's led to a life of being very desensitized. It can take me forever to get off.

I'm hoping the constant stimulation, the build up, the psychological effects will all help me be able to get off easier when it's time to .

This coming from someone who considers themselves a Dom.

Really new to this. Hoping wearing a cage will help with having a more regular intimate relationship with the wife without her actually having to have sex with me. We have been married for 20 years, We started our marriage having pretty regular sex but over the years her interest in sex has gone down. She is not as horny and dislikes the mess. Last year we probably had sex 4 times. Hoping chastity will create some intimacy and increase arousal for me but remove the pressure on her and the need to clean up

My wife won't play, not even a little bit, so why do I wear a cage? It's simple. It feels good.

The cage's constant touching and controlling of the genitals feels good, creating very pleasant endorphins to flow.

I wear a cage to prevent masturbation. After a few times of me telling her it was too soon after our last sex session to do it again, she got suspicious. I finally admitted I was masturbating everyday. I was ashamed, but hooked on that instant, yet fleeting high. I suggested we try a cage. It's been over 3 years now and we couldn't be happier. I only cum with her present and only when she wants me to. I've gone from being addicted to orgasms to being addicted to frustration!

For my wife and I - no particular reason other than we are open minded and curious. We are having fun with chastity and so far, we both enjoy it.