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My wife is naturally dominant and we have a wife led marriage. The wife led marriage is something she demands. I do all the housework, she controls the finances, etc... but she has not been interested in the kinky aspect of an FLR. We have done tease and denial for a couple years but she didn't take it all that seriously. Without going into details I have been given a task that will benefet my wife significantly. This task will take 3 - 5 months. We both agreed that I cannot orgasm until I have completed it. I am on the honor system and have not cheated. It has been a month since my last orgasm. I have never went this long before. She has been doing tease and denial on me several times each week. I am constantly horny and thinking about it. I feel more submissive to her and more obedient. We get along better. I feel more feminine as each day passes. I am a crossdresser and orgasm denial has always made me feel more fem. I also have more energy and my mood is much better.

This experiment has worked well. For the first time my wife really does not want me to orgasm. She has noticed that I am more obedient and caring for her and she wants me to be motivated to complete my task for her.

Hi mcd,

Very interesting post for me since I am also a crossdresser, mainly underdressing though with hints to the observant. I am also in an FLR in that I have a rota of chores I must keep abreast of and my wife has total control of our sex life, but She has little interest in managing finances and such so that's still down to me.

As the FLR has developed over a number of years, orgasm denial has become permanent for me until I'm at the point that a penile orgasm is something I no longer want and is something She threatens me with occasionally. I do have occasional ruins, but these have to me proper ruins, not these things on Porntube where stroking stops one second before ejaculation.

The interesting thing is that since my life has existed in a state of constant low-level horniness, which is where She wants me, Her libido has increased massively to the point where we will enjoy some sexual activity almost daily, obviously dictated by Her.

Asked why this is, She has no clear answer, just that She enjoys things as they are. My own thought is that She enjoys control in that I am forbidden to initiate anything so am very passive, which means I think She has confidence that She won't have pressure to do anything She doesn't want to. But also, I think that not having the pressure of bringing me to an orgasm, with occasional "semigasms" as She calls them being for Her amusement, is also a big factor.

With any luck, by the time your task is complete both you and she will agree that orgasms are not everything they are built up to be.

As another crossdresser, I would like to think that your long term 3-5 month task could be something like growing your hair out to shoulder length, or maybe losing some weight to reduce your waist size and fit into a smaller corset. But those don't sould like tasks that would "benefit your wife significantly." Can you maybe give us a little hint?

i think you will find that mcd has disappeared ! Not certain if they were genuine going by their various posts.

MsM’s ld