Something new... what was that?

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Something new... what was that?

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For the last couple months I've been self locking when my wife isn't around or when intimacy isn't going to happen. I'm still working through some cage sizing issues but it's been enjoyable. Sex is a fairly infrequent affair, often being three to six weeks apart. When we have sex it's very enjoyable. My wife is very vanilla - we own no toys and when I initially proposed positions beyond me on top or her on top she thought it was a bit kinky. Anyway, three weeks ago we had sex and I decided I was going to try self enforced orgasm denial until the next time we had sex. I'm caged when I can be and using the "honor system" the rest of the time - though I'm only really honoring the promise I made to myself. I've stopped looking at porn and I'm not masturbating to orgasm, though I have edged a number of times.

Anyway, it's three weeks today and things are starting to get really interesting. I was uncaged entirely for the last few days due to travel and, when I put it back on today, it was a really intense feeling. I drove across town and the vibrations from the car were enough to make me think I might orgasm in the car. I pulled into a parking lot for a couple minutes and, suddenly I felt like I was going to orgasm. I felt myself grow to the confines of the cage as there was the building feeling I associate with being about to orgasm. Then felt a euphoric high that I'd normally associate with orgasm. It felt amazing and a bit as if I was floating. I felt like I was going to have a bunch of cleanup to do but when I checked, there was no ejaculate that actually came out. It happened two more times over the next couple hours though to a slightly lesser extent. I thought at first it might be an orgasm with no fluid that managed to get out but, sitting here now, I'm incredibly horny and don't seem to feel any decrease in libido. In fact, everything feels extra sensitive which is driving me a little nuts.

Has anyone else experienced this? It doesn't seem like a ruin (no ejaculation but lots of pleasure), it clearly wasn't an involuntary fluid release since there was no fluid, and an orgasm seems unlikely since I didn't have any of the decrease in desire I'd normally associate with orgasm. So what was that?

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That was an orgasm without ejaculation, which is why you didn’t have the “drop in desire”. I’ve read articles that speak of lengthy kegel and reverse kegel training to teach people to have orgasms without ejaculation. You lucky bastard don’t need any of that, for you, it appears, it just works.
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I've had similar things happen. I just attribute it to my body being more excited than my mind at the time. Or sometimes it's my mind that gets excited and takes my body time to catch up.
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The result sounds similar to anal orgasms, which are a new development for me. Those took significant effort from both me and my owner. You’re just walking around getting them. 😂
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It happened again last night and it really does feel good, though not as good as an uncaged ejaculating orgasm. I do feel fortunate and this seems like a pretty big win for longer term denial. If this is how I feel at three weeks, what will it be like next week?

The only real problem is that I can totally see them being addictive- after having one I desperately wanted another - to the point that I was tapping on the cage for stimulation. If I could get my wife onboard, I think I’d much prefer to have her in charge of when I can do that. Happening spontaneously seems legitimate but when I start tapping the cage for stimulation that feels like the old masturbation habit all over again. Though, at least it doesn’t leave me unable to perform if my wife wanted to have sex.

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I think that the frequency at which they happen will decrease over time as you get more accustomed to wearing the cage. Don't forget, right now you're in the "OMG, I'm locked up and it's making me horny!" stage. If it gets to the point where it's the norm, the stimulation will certainly decrease.
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Ok, things continue to get weirder. It seems those small non-ejaculating orgasms were the warmup. While stirring a giant pot of chili last night, I felt an orgasm coming. I probably should have stopped stirring so vigorously but kept going and got a full on orgasm. The weird thing was that I got what appeared to be a fair bit of ejaculate as well as some urine - as if, not being erect, my body didn’t want to shut off the flow. That was decidedly weird and I’m glad it happened where a change of underclothes was available.
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What were you stirring with exactly? :D ;)
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