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Oh, and while I'm rambling, jnuts blog entry about voyuerism made me think. One aspect of this that is very voyueristic that I really enjoy is sitting between her legs, locked, and using some nice toy to penetrate her. Just as much fun, and none of the jealousy!

Oh man, this, I love! And here I am stuck in a hotel room with a nice big king sized bed all by my lonesome. Arrgh!

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Celtic Queen wrote:I was actually thinking of adding " young children" to my list of uses of chastity actually

Yes! Jnuts and I have a 17 month old and a 6 month old. Locking that cock up is extra bc for us!

Belle wrote: Yes! Jnuts and I have a 17 month old and a 6 month old. Locking that cock up is extra bc for us!

I read on another blog where a woman actually stopped taking her OCPs when she and her husband got going with chastity. Part of the motivation was that she never cared for the side effects and what they did to her libido. Since she knew exactly when he was going to come, they could use barrier protection for those rare times.

I realize this is an option that might not work for many people. I mention it more just because I thought it was interesting.

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Belle wrote:I make it a POINT to spend time with/on him every few days. It may not be a lot of time, but it only takes a few minutes to make him feel loved and show my appreciation for what he is doing for our relationship. I don't plan on changing that when we get the JB.

Sorry, I didn't make that clear. I get some sort of sexual attention just about every day. Let out to play is much less often. And you're right - it only takes a few minutes. Locked up and teased, yummm. Locked up and ignored? to

I'm surprised you don't have your JB yet - I think you ordered your's not long after we ordered, so should be along any day now. It will be interesting to see what difference it makes for you both.

Celtic Queen wrote:I was actually thinking of adding " young children" to my list of uses of chastity actually

Wouldn't that fall under "celibacy" actually? There was an 18 month period after the kids came along when we probably made love half a dozen times max.

Does the original question apply if you're mostly on the honor system? Regardless of whether I'm locked up or not, our in-between release play hasn't included any T&D. This is mostly because we're still trying to figure out how this works. What usually happens is that after I take care of her, it's about 11pm and and she's barely awake. I'm confident we'll figure out something soon though, because we're aiming for something way beyond our usual 14-21 day release cycle this time -- I proposed to her that my next release should be Jan 1, after the holidays, as a way to avoid the holiday funks. This was three weeks ago, and the only reason I've made it this far is because she's getting plenty. But if I don't get any attention soon, I'm never going to make it...

Shane67 wrote:

Celtic Queen wrote:I was actually thinking of adding " young children" to my list of uses of chastity actually

Wouldn't that fall under "celibacy" actually? There was an 18 month period after the kids came along when we probably made love half a dozen times

it...

Lol, sleep is the new porn is this house

Belle wrote:I don't know how often I will be letting him out when our device arrives. I have a feeling it will bemore frequent than most,

as I am not a fan of manual stimulation, and oral is one of those things that I have to be in the mood for.

Penatrative sex is what makes me cum, so I am pretty sure I will be letting him out for my own personal pleasure, not his.

My KH wife enjoys manual stimulation and penetrative sex, but never oral sex. I just assumed that all women enjoyed oral sex. She says she can't quite explain what it is that she doesn't like. Belle since you do like it sometimes, what is it that makes it ok sometimes and not ok others? I enjoy making love this way and I have a feeling that perhaps I am doing something wrong. When I do try this she acts very skittish like, "Please hurry up or stop, one or the other." When I stimulate her using my hands she takes a very long time to orgasm, but they tend to be explosive. Then she wants to be penetrated shortly after that....All good...but, I would like to see if I could please her orally as well. Ladies, is there some advice you can give me on this subject?

Ladies, is there some advice you can give me on this subject?

My 2 cents from my experience this morning...

Do you have any facial hair (beard, mustache)? I like it best when Ab is freshly shaved. At 4 am this morning he was feeling a little stubbly. It wasn't bad but it was noticeable and I like it best when he's smooth as a peach.

The best position for us is our modified 69. Ab is up on his knees with his face in my crotch. He doesn't put his knees around my shoulders (thus why I call it modified) just stays to my side (usually right). This gives me nice access to his locked up cock and balls which feels good. I can also play with his perineum easily at this angle. Meanwhile, he is able to put pressure on my pussy with his chin (this is why I like it smoothly shaved) and that seems to help with the oral stimulation.

I never sit on his face because I feel like I am going to smother him (I'm a big girl). He also doesn't tend to lie between my legs, mostly because the bed is not long enough (I never have quite figured out how people make that work in pictures...LOL). But I also think the between the legs from the bottom isn't as exciting (for me) because it's just his tongue and no other real pressure as I noted above.

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Also, the clitoris. Know it, love it.

Further excellent tips:

http://sexuality.about.com/od/oralsex/h ... lingus.htm