Numbing cream

[Chastehusband]

After being allowed release after a week of being locked, I find myself to be extremely sensitive. Does anyone using numbing creme to help last longer, if so what are the recommendations?

[Atone]

After being allowed release after a week of being locked, I find myself to be extremely sensitive. Does anyone using numbing creme to help last longer, if so what are the recommendations?

try a Valium. Oh, not that kind of sensitive. Or you can try hiding the key better, that will help the chastity last longer.

Sorry, I can't be of any help. I'm surprised that you are that much more sensitive after a week though.

-A

[thumper]

We tried a numbing cream at the beginning, but it also seemed to numb Belle, so that was a problem. Some have tried multiple condoms, but Belle doesn't like how condoms feel, so that was a problem, too.

So...yeah...I'm no help, apparently.

[deq]

Is the over-sensitivity a problem because its uncomfortable or because its causing you to cum fast/at all? Speaking for my own keyholder, if its uncomfortable, good. If its making you cum, get milked before hand or you could use the numbing cream and then a single condom, would give the desired effect without risk of interfering with your partners pleasure.

[Sarah]

We tried a numbing cream at the beginning, but it also seemed to numb Belle, so that was a problem. Some have tried multiple condoms, but Belle doesn't like how condoms feel, so that was a problem, too.

So...yeah...I'm no help, apparently.

A couple of things we've found:

1. A couple of glasses of wine for him.

2. Read John's comments in a past newsletter about how once he's been to the edge and back once, it's easier to control thereafter. Although Wednesday night was obviously an exception

xx

Sarah

[Chastehusband]

Is the over-sensitivity a problem because its uncomfortable or because its causing you to cum fast/at all? Speaking for my own keyholder, if its uncomfortable, good. If its making you cum, get milked before hand or you could use the numbing cream and then a single condom, would give the desired effect without risk of interfering with your partners pleasure.

Yea it's cuming fast, I don't think milking is something either of us are interested in though.

[Dev]

Yea it's cuming fast, I don't think milking is something either of us are interested in though.

This is something I don't understand...are you not interested in anal sex? Or do you see milking as something different? And if so, what is the difference?

D

[Chastehusband]

Yea it's cuming fast, I don't think milking is something either of us are interested in though.

This is something I don't understand...are you not interested in anal sex? Or do you see milking as something different? And if so, what is the difference?

D

Something different, not particularly interested in my wife giving me anal sex, though we are about to explore anal sex together, just the other way around.

[Dev]

Something different, not particularly interested in my wife giving me anal sex, though we are about to explore anal sex together, just the other way around.

You're the one with the prostate gland so you may want to re-think that...

D

[WendyWicke]

J is usually on a hair trigger after an extended lockup. I don't really mind, because I love to see how much comes out when he's been denied a while and I love knowing I can totally make him lose control.

But to make him last, usually I leave him out for a week or so and make him cum often (even when he's unlocked he's not allowed to cum without my permission). After a couple of days he can start to last a little while and by the end of the week he can last as long as I want. I enjoy that for a couple of days and the lock him back up!