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Hello,
I am, Bob, from Scotland. I have been lurking, for a few months, but finally joined up. My wife and I are new to Chastity. She was a bit unsure to start with, but is now starting to enjoy having me, locked up. She likes to tease me and get me wound up.
We are just using a couple of cheap metal cages, off of the net.

Bob

Literally started this one week today. I have been following the suggestions about duration in my Rikers 24/7. I chose it because I wanted a more secure, cold BD/SM look. Not gonna lie, it has occupied my brain so much. I also find I enjoy tormenting myself. My wife is unaware.... not sure she would understand the Power Exchange. Thank you for this blog!

Hi everyone,

I am thrilled to have found such a wonderful community of fellow chastity enthusiasts. I would love to learn more about why you enjoy chastity/keyholding.

Ladies first, so you'll find my answer below.

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I enjoy keyholding because I am a firm believer the best way to control a submissive is through their sex. When a submissive can willingly relinquish the power and control of their primal desires, they are more obedient, attentive and engaging. Keyholding is the ultimate power play, and to hold the physical key to one’s sex is quite thrilling.

Keyholding empowers me to dominate my submissives in a way I find exciting, rewarding, and fun. At the core of keyholding, a healthy D/s dynamic can be physically represented through one’s cage and keys. I’ve always been attracted to men and women who long to submit to my authority. Chastity play provides the perfect avenue to arouse not only my kinky desires but my submissives as well.

Keyholding has allowed me to cherry-pick my favorite aspect of Online Domination and bring them into one centralized kink. I enjoy chastity play, submissive training, erotic hypnosis, tease/denial, power play, and sissification to name a few. All of my favorite elements are translated into keyholding but allow my submissives to explore their sex in a unique way.

Hi everyone,

Relatively new to chastity but happy to discover this forum and curious to interact with others.

Hello from Washington state!

I got pointed to this forum from someone on a different chastity site - who I original became familiar with from She Makes the Rules.

I used to read the “denying thumper” blog, have read one published book on chastity, and a fair amount of internet posts about it, but as of this writing have yet to have a partner who shared my interest.

I work from home now due to the ‘rona, am slowly checking off items on my home improvement to do list, and - after watching “The Queens Gambit” - am teaching myself chess using an app and website. Exciting, I know.

I hope that everyone is safe and well!

Byrdie wrote: ↑Tue Nov 24, 2020 10:18 am Hello from Washington state!

I got pointed to this forum from someone on a different chastity site - who I original became familiar with from She Makes the Rules.

Hello Byrdie! Ask them to give you access to the keyholders section. It's a private place where the men cannot see the posts. Not much activity from what I hear, but there may be some interesting things.

Glad you decided to check us out.

Greeting from this newbie in the world of chastity. Currently using a Rikers 24/7 as my first device. Loving the weight, feel and inability to remotely touch myself. Learning so much from you all.

nosaint wrote: ↑Tue Nov 24, 2020 12:46 pm Ask them to give you access to the keyholders section. It's a private place where the men cannot see the posts. Not much activity from what I hear, but there may be some interesting things.

Hi, nosaint!

I figured out how to request access to the Keyholders section, so I've submitted my application ... so to speak.

nosaint wrote: Glad you decided to check us out.

Thank you for the pointer.

I'm only here for Thumper hand porn.

Not a keyholder, but not NOT a keyholder.

Chastity-adjacent and definitely not a spammer.

Ferns

Ferns wrote: ↑Wed Nov 25, 2020 5:33 am Chastity-adjacent and definitely not a spammer.

Ferns

Well, there goes the neighborhood.