Unexpected benefit of chastity
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Seems to me that this is a psychological thing... I'm only 37 so my previous lack of really hard erections was down to frequency, porn usage, and overall exasperation with sex in general. Locking up has controlled all that and has given me a focus, my keyholder. I'm as hard as 10 years ago.
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nosaint
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I disagree, when you haven't had an orgasm in a month, or touched your dick in a week and even washing or scratching, oooh dear lord scratching, is a near blissful experience, there is a large physical component. I started this thread 6 months ago, if it was purely psychological, there would be some reduction in my reaction as I got used to the new normal. There hasn't been. You've got 3 guys 60+ with similar experiences, you have 20+ years to go to understand the reduction in performance we've all dealt with, enjoy the ride
Caged 24/7 since June 5,2024. Locked in a Cherry Keeper Micro
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Well.. Thats one way to screw with a guys mind! But I am sure you are right, so advice such as above will come in handy...you have 20+ years to go to understand the reduction in performance we've all dealt with, enjoy the ride
...now if only I can find a way to sit in a chair without hurting my puffer fish balls.
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TwistedMister
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You'll get used to it...eventually. I used to always have to make a discrete 'adjustment', especially getting into/on vehicles. At some point I must have learned to move a little differently because now it is no longer necessary. Looser fitting jeans/pants help, slim fit can cause things to be more uncomfortable.Obmon wrote: ↑Sun Oct 11, 2020 5:17 amWell.. Thats one way to screw with a guys mind! But I am sure you are right, so advice such as above will come in handy...you have 20+ years to go to understand the reduction in performance we've all dealt with, enjoy the ride
...now if only I can find a way to sit in a chair without hurting my puffer fish balls.
My balls are fairly big, and they are pushed up and out, against my thighs as I'm sitting here now. It's an odd feeling.
04/07/19 "And then I 'punished' you by making you lick my pussy after I let my other 'boy' fuck me." --Mrs. Twisted
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Mine too... Only the last lockup did I finally figure out how to properly position all the bits and peices.. I'm sure I will get used to it.My balls are fairly big, and they are pushed up and out, against my thighs as I'm sitting here now. It's an odd feeling.
And you're right! Odd feelings all over the place these days.. I have had to rethink about stuff that has been automatic since before I can talk among other strange new feelings.. Bumping against a counter now, for example, when reaching for something and the cage is tapped... is one such new experience.
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To no saint and mr pickle. It's a real thing in my relationship and my gf is taking erectile dysfunction as seriously as me. We think we can train myself out of it it, especially solo masturbation with porn. And we get to do this strange kink of mine too. She's amazing and has even cut down on solo orgasms herself. I'm like NO, more oral for her is part of my training. It's working, longer erections for me but I think I need more than the 6 weeks I've had.
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The difference between the honor system and the HT Nub, which I also own, is that you have something wrapped around your penis all the time and that is more stimulating than not having anything wrapped around it. I no longer can get hard after ten years of orgasm denial so my wife decided permanent orgasm denial was appropriate. The first year is almost over and it does not bother me. I enjoy just making out with my wife and she enjoys her man vibrators in the privacy of her own room.
After ten years of my penis being compressed in smaller and smaller chastity cages, it is barely an inch flaccid. Weight gain and old age also had something to do with it. I enjoy wearing a chastity cage because it is stimulating. That is what is happening to you. I had to abandon my nub because it is too big for me. I wear a flat disk now and it is fine. My wife likes that she cannot see my penis anymore. She was never a penis fan to begin with once she got a steady girlfriend. Such is life. Last year I did get erect once with Viagra but most times it is no go even with Viagra. We got to the point where we do not even try anymore and I stay locked all the time. Shower with it on and never take it off. It is stimulating.
After ten years of my penis being compressed in smaller and smaller chastity cages, it is barely an inch flaccid. Weight gain and old age also had something to do with it. I enjoy wearing a chastity cage because it is stimulating. That is what is happening to you. I had to abandon my nub because it is too big for me. I wear a flat disk now and it is fine. My wife likes that she cannot see my penis anymore. She was never a penis fan to begin with once she got a steady girlfriend. Such is life. Last year I did get erect once with Viagra but most times it is no go even with Viagra. We got to the point where we do not even try anymore and I stay locked all the time. Shower with it on and never take it off. It is stimulating.