Hello, I am subnami. I’m a 42 year old male currently locked in chastity by my Wife, who I’ll call Lady Yuna. We’ve been married for almost 12 wonderful years, but just started getting into chastity a week ago.
My journey into chastity started as a teenager. I was in and play in school and had to wear a leotard and tights for it. After the play was over with I still had the clothes and I would sometimes wear the leotard. Wearing it made me excited and with the tight fit of a leotard it would restrict my erection which led to thinking about “what if I wore something that prevented me from getting an erection?”.
I then started searching the internet finding out about chastity belts and chastity cages and found it all so enticing. I wanted one so bad. Once I was around 22 I finally got the courage and the money to buy a cb-2000. Once it finally arrived (I was waiting impatiently) I rushed to my bedroom to figure out how to put it on. Between erections, I was able to figure out a base ring and spacers that worked and locked myself up for the first time! I loved how it felt on me and the feeling of being locked, I was hooked. The cb-2000 wasn’t too comfortable under clothes and the nighttime erections were painful. Eventually I got a cb-3000 and that was better, and then a cb-6000. They worked alright, I would wear it for up to 3 or 4 days at a time on occasion. I think the longest I went locked up was 2 weeks and about 50 days without an orgasm. During this time I never really had a keyholder which made it difficult to stay focused on the task.
That’s the beginning, more to come…
[subnami] my chastity journey
Re: [subnami] my chastity journey
…to continue
I met my wife, Lady Yuna, at around 25. She is absolutely amazing and I can’t imagine not being with her. As much as I loved her I still kept my chastity kink a secret, I was worried it would scare her away. I would still occasionally wear the chastity cage on my own.
A few years after getting married I decided it was time to tell Lady Yuna about my interest in chastity. I wanted a new cage and had chosen a Holy Trainer with a small tube. So one night I finally told her about my fantasy of having my cock locked in chastity and showed her the device I wanted to get. She had some concerns and questions; “what about sex?” “Won’t that hurt you?”, things like that. I told her that I still wanted sex and I’d it would come off whenever she wanted, it was more to help me keep from masturbating so much and save that energy for her. She didn’t seem very interested in the idea and didn’t want to the responsibility of such an important key, but she didn’t mind me getting the chastity cage.
I got the Holy Trainer, Lady Yuna picked out a pretty teal color. I found the Holy Trainer to be much more comfortable than the cb-x series. Nighttime erections were only uncomfortable and went away after peeing. I felt the overall wearability was much better than the cb-x. My only issue with the Holy Trainer was with the tube style design, I had trouble keeping it clean enough.
I would lock myself for up to a day or two at a time, but mostly for a few hours. Lady Yuna seemed to take a little more interest in my chastity, she also wasn’t fan of the tube style. I had been looking at Cherry Keeper and their cage style designs and showed them to her and liked the cage better, she likes that she would still be able to touch me through the bars of the cage.
She let me order a cage from Cherry Keeper in blue. Lady Yuna liked that it was easier to clean and she could still play with me with it on. It felt really comfortable, but the cage was too long to really wear on a daily basis. It was fun to play with, but I still wanted something that I could wear more continuously. I talked to Lady Yuna about getting a smaller cage and she was good with it so we ordered a new Cherry Keeper.
When the new cage arrived I put it on as soon as I could, this one was purple. It fit great, the smaller cage was much better. I showed Lady Yuna and she said it was cute. I started wearing it a little more often than I had been. It was much easier to hide it under my clothes.
More to come…
I met my wife, Lady Yuna, at around 25. She is absolutely amazing and I can’t imagine not being with her. As much as I loved her I still kept my chastity kink a secret, I was worried it would scare her away. I would still occasionally wear the chastity cage on my own.
A few years after getting married I decided it was time to tell Lady Yuna about my interest in chastity. I wanted a new cage and had chosen a Holy Trainer with a small tube. So one night I finally told her about my fantasy of having my cock locked in chastity and showed her the device I wanted to get. She had some concerns and questions; “what about sex?” “Won’t that hurt you?”, things like that. I told her that I still wanted sex and I’d it would come off whenever she wanted, it was more to help me keep from masturbating so much and save that energy for her. She didn’t seem very interested in the idea and didn’t want to the responsibility of such an important key, but she didn’t mind me getting the chastity cage.
I got the Holy Trainer, Lady Yuna picked out a pretty teal color. I found the Holy Trainer to be much more comfortable than the cb-x series. Nighttime erections were only uncomfortable and went away after peeing. I felt the overall wearability was much better than the cb-x. My only issue with the Holy Trainer was with the tube style design, I had trouble keeping it clean enough.
I would lock myself for up to a day or two at a time, but mostly for a few hours. Lady Yuna seemed to take a little more interest in my chastity, she also wasn’t fan of the tube style. I had been looking at Cherry Keeper and their cage style designs and showed them to her and liked the cage better, she likes that she would still be able to touch me through the bars of the cage.
She let me order a cage from Cherry Keeper in blue. Lady Yuna liked that it was easier to clean and she could still play with me with it on. It felt really comfortable, but the cage was too long to really wear on a daily basis. It was fun to play with, but I still wanted something that I could wear more continuously. I talked to Lady Yuna about getting a smaller cage and she was good with it so we ordered a new Cherry Keeper.
When the new cage arrived I put it on as soon as I could, this one was purple. It fit great, the smaller cage was much better. I showed Lady Yuna and she said it was cute. I started wearing it a little more often than I had been. It was much easier to hide it under my clothes.
More to come…
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Re: [subnami] my chastity journey
So I had gotten the purple cage about 6 months ago and it was fitting pretty comfortably. I’d wear it here and there. I put the key on a necklace and when I would lock myself I would leave the key on our desk, secretly hoping that one day Lady Yuna would take the necklace and wear the key.
About a month ago I got into a kick of wearing the chastity cage. Often I would wear it for a few hours then masturbate, sometimes I’d wear it for longer, maybe a day or so. Two weeks ago Lady Yuna came home from work, went to our room to change, and came back out for the evening. At some point I went to our room for something and I noticed the key was gone from the desk!
My cock swelled, the cage getting tight. I was so excited and a little apprehensive. She’d actually taken the key, but would it be one of those “be careful what you wish for” situations? I left the room to find Lady Yuna. With kids around, I tried looking to see if she was wearing the necklace. I saw a chain around her neck. She must have noticed me looking, she pulled the key out to show me then tucked it back in her shirt, my cage getting tighter. I couldn’t believe it, she had taken the key and was wearing it, a fantasy come true!
We talked a little that night about how this new situation would work. She wanted to make me happy, but didn’t know all the ins and outs of what I wanted. We agreed that I would kind of top from the bottom, letting her know if I need to be unlocked or if I need an orgasm. We fooled around a bit, I used a vibrator on her and then she unlocked and teased me before locking me back up.
Lady Yuna worked the next day, my first day locked by my wife. I had an emergency key, so I could get out if needed. We fooled around again that night, me using a vibrator on her, and her teasing me and locking me back up. It was fantastic!
My desire to cum was building much faster than I thought it would. The following night was a little different, we fooled around again, but no vibrator for her. She went for a teasing handjob. Her hand felt sooo good sliding up and down on me. She brought me to the edge 2 or 3 times, I was going crazy, I wanted to cum so bad. The next edge was approaching, she leaned in, “Cum for me!” she said. A few more strokes pushed me over the edge. I erupted, spraying her dress and covering her hands. She continued stroking as my cock started getting overly sensitive. She stopped before I started thrashing around from the overstimulation.
I usually have no interest in putting my chastity cage back on after I cum. This time, though, I was happy to be locked back up for my Lady Yuna.
About a month ago I got into a kick of wearing the chastity cage. Often I would wear it for a few hours then masturbate, sometimes I’d wear it for longer, maybe a day or so. Two weeks ago Lady Yuna came home from work, went to our room to change, and came back out for the evening. At some point I went to our room for something and I noticed the key was gone from the desk!
My cock swelled, the cage getting tight. I was so excited and a little apprehensive. She’d actually taken the key, but would it be one of those “be careful what you wish for” situations? I left the room to find Lady Yuna. With kids around, I tried looking to see if she was wearing the necklace. I saw a chain around her neck. She must have noticed me looking, she pulled the key out to show me then tucked it back in her shirt, my cage getting tighter. I couldn’t believe it, she had taken the key and was wearing it, a fantasy come true!
We talked a little that night about how this new situation would work. She wanted to make me happy, but didn’t know all the ins and outs of what I wanted. We agreed that I would kind of top from the bottom, letting her know if I need to be unlocked or if I need an orgasm. We fooled around a bit, I used a vibrator on her and then she unlocked and teased me before locking me back up.
Lady Yuna worked the next day, my first day locked by my wife. I had an emergency key, so I could get out if needed. We fooled around again that night, me using a vibrator on her, and her teasing me and locking me back up. It was fantastic!
My desire to cum was building much faster than I thought it would. The following night was a little different, we fooled around again, but no vibrator for her. She went for a teasing handjob. Her hand felt sooo good sliding up and down on me. She brought me to the edge 2 or 3 times, I was going crazy, I wanted to cum so bad. The next edge was approaching, she leaned in, “Cum for me!” she said. A few more strokes pushed me over the edge. I erupted, spraying her dress and covering her hands. She continued stroking as my cock started getting overly sensitive. She stopped before I started thrashing around from the overstimulation.
I usually have no interest in putting my chastity cage back on after I cum. This time, though, I was happy to be locked back up for my Lady Yuna.
3 x
Re: [subnami] my chastity journey
It’s been about 2 weeks since Lady Yuna took the keys. We’ve had some fun playing. She noticed some positive side effects in me from being locked and denied. She’s said that I’m more affectionate, attentive, and engaged.
Because of this, we’ve decided that it should no longer be just a game. We had a talk about it and laid down some rules.
Lady Yuna said that I’m not allowed to masturbate or play around with myself. I’m not allowed to look at any porn. I’m to stay locked in chastity except when she unlocks me. I do have an emergency key, I’m working on making more secure and tamper evident.
Because of this, we’ve decided that it should no longer be just a game. We had a talk about it and laid down some rules.
Lady Yuna said that I’m not allowed to masturbate or play around with myself. I’m not allowed to look at any porn. I’m to stay locked in chastity except when she unlocks me. I do have an emergency key, I’m working on making more secure and tamper evident.
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Re: [subnami] my chastity journey
We had gotten a strap on so that Lady Yuna could peg me. We’ve had a chance to try it once and it was amazing, I can’t wait to try it again. That being said, Lady Yuna has now ordered a new dildo for the strap on harness for me to use on her while I’m locked. It’s a big (bigger than me) black dildo.
It seems Lady Yuna may have plans to keep me locked up for longer periods of time without having to deprive herself of anything. I’m just excited to see where this all goes.
It seems Lady Yuna may have plans to keep me locked up for longer periods of time without having to deprive herself of anything. I’m just excited to see where this all goes.
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Re: [subnami] my chastity journey
Don't forget to warm it up before using it on her. 
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Past Devices: Curve & CB 6000s. Both broke, were repaired; then broke beyond repair.
Current Devices: MM Jail Bird, Cobra, MM Watchful Mistress, Holy Trainer v3, a new Curve & the dreaded Spiked Chamber.
Current Devices: MM Jail Bird, Cobra, MM Watchful Mistress, Holy Trainer v3, a new Curve & the dreaded Spiked Chamber.