[Mr Pickle] one step forwards, two steps back
Changed my intro. Things change.
This journey covers five years (so far) from a kink in my head to an insanely better life for the whole family.
Yes it's about cock cages and sex and how it comes about etc. But more importantly how C my wife changes, and how it enables her to mould these changes to a much better life.
We were (still) married with kids.
At the start we have been married 15 years.
C is the petite a beautiful woman whom due to religious upbringing was a bit wary about this stuff or kinks in general,
but she caught on pretty fast once things got going. However the "getting going" took the best part of a year.
Now after 15 years of marriage sex was still good (In that it still happened).
My wife wants me to feel satisfied and seems happier if we have sex regular. even if it's a hand job.
but I'm starting to not rise to the occasion. or lose it while in the act. my usual answer is to try to spice it up a bit. new toy. new kink ect.
Saying C was strictly vanilla wouldn't be fair. Its more bound by our lifestyle (we have kids) so as much as we would.. spontaneous over the table isn't an option. Spontaneity isn't an option at all.
Sex becomes a bit tedious. No matter what you do. Do it often and it just isn't as exciting.
Then theres the mercy sex. The uncomfortable sex and the guilt that goes with it.
We went through a stage where we just weren't getting on and we considered a break, Devorce...
And I though What?
Why are we thinking this? I know it's wrong.
I also knew it was mostly me.
Deep down I knew we loved and each other and the passion we had once was still there somewhere. I got some counciling. Therapy etc.
It was OK. But not enough.
So I kind of tricked and lied my way into this.
It didn't work of course and Im regretful. But what is done can not be undone.
Sorry honey, you deserved better. Now you have it.
A year into this and my wife.. C. she is my exciting! Often I have to catch my breath knowing how lucky I am.
My journey starts because I wanted something different. And something that might work for us.
I felt I had to be inventive. I also had to do a whole lot of shit shovelling.
Thank God she loves me regardless.
So this is the intro to my journey. Its back dated as I started my notes in june 2019 but will eventually got up to date.
Yes I've fucked up. Yes advice was needed.
Feel free to be outraged. At this time my apologies have already been made and debts being paid.
So here we go. Down the rabbit hole.
2019. It sunny and everyone is happy and weekend holidays have begun. A perfect time to bring up a new idea
so I start with.. " hey honey. Ive seen this interesting thing thst might help me in certain ways...and I'm cut off with "if it's anything about your penis or kinky wierd stuff the answer is NO! I don't want to know"
ok. expected I supose so now I know where I stand.
Over the years I've added all sorts of minor kinks which are now just normal but I've always had to use the back door or a round about way to get them in. so I figured I'll get one anyway figure it out and then find a way to introduce it.
I'll use my "Genius"
[Mr Pickle] one step forwards, two steps back
[Mr Pickle] one step forwards, two steps back
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Me. "I only got 30 seconds, that's not fair". C. "life's not fair, suck it up" ![Sad :(](./images/smilies/icon_e_sad.gif)
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Re: [Mr Pickle] one step forwards, two steps back
June 2019.
I was going to find a way to self lock in a way that she could accept. Or Hopefully in time she would accept it.
I started to read advice from those who sell, and after lots of experiments with different designs and sizes (see how many have you got in general forum) I settled on a steel cage. oval ring and shoelace.
this was in advance because I knew there would be no patience for wearing in time.
I build houses these days. one at a time. solo. from foundation to roof and everything in between. so im always getting knocks and bangs and power tools are my new heaven.
A few times I'd hit my bits and couldn’t perform and i had some sensitivity issues which i blamed on the vibrarions from the tools (like white knuckle).
The truth was, this was my excuse for oncoming Ed problems, not getting it up etc. And I was too macho embarrassed to say I wasn't up to it, which in itself was depressing.
Maybe it was age? I didn't think so. 8 think we were lacking in spice naughtiness.
I had found a website that suggested a chastity cage also protects your man bits. Most likely protection from myself waking it, but the protection idea?
Yes. This was something I could work with.
Then another night where I couldn't perform.
So i put it down to work again. I keep baning it, siting in it, trapping it.
C "Cant you wear a sport box"
'No. they make my balls sweat and i get a rash'
"there must be something?"
'I'll google it. Ok there is this. it protects the penis but doesn't cover the balls so no sweat. but its expensive'
"well it's better than an injury".
'ok. I'll order one'
now at this time. I already had them and I had adjusted to day wear.
cb6000, silicon, curve.
now to wait a few days before saying they had arrived.
I was going to find a way to self lock in a way that she could accept. Or Hopefully in time she would accept it.
I started to read advice from those who sell, and after lots of experiments with different designs and sizes (see how many have you got in general forum) I settled on a steel cage. oval ring and shoelace.
this was in advance because I knew there would be no patience for wearing in time.
I build houses these days. one at a time. solo. from foundation to roof and everything in between. so im always getting knocks and bangs and power tools are my new heaven.
A few times I'd hit my bits and couldn’t perform and i had some sensitivity issues which i blamed on the vibrarions from the tools (like white knuckle).
The truth was, this was my excuse for oncoming Ed problems, not getting it up etc. And I was too macho embarrassed to say I wasn't up to it, which in itself was depressing.
Maybe it was age? I didn't think so. 8 think we were lacking in spice naughtiness.
I had found a website that suggested a chastity cage also protects your man bits. Most likely protection from myself waking it, but the protection idea?
Yes. This was something I could work with.
Then another night where I couldn't perform.
So i put it down to work again. I keep baning it, siting in it, trapping it.
C "Cant you wear a sport box"
'No. they make my balls sweat and i get a rash'
"there must be something?"
'I'll google it. Ok there is this. it protects the penis but doesn't cover the balls so no sweat. but its expensive'
"well it's better than an injury".
'ok. I'll order one'
now at this time. I already had them and I had adjusted to day wear.
cb6000, silicon, curve.
now to wait a few days before saying they had arrived.
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Me. "I only got 30 seconds, that's not fair". C. "life's not fair, suck it up" ![Sad :(](./images/smilies/icon_e_sad.gif)
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Re:[Mr Pickle] one step forwards, two steps back
this was the poster/add I used to support my case.
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Me. "I only got 30 seconds, that's not fair". C. "life's not fair, suck it up" ![Sad :(](./images/smilies/icon_e_sad.gif)
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Re:[Mr Pickle] one step forwards, two steps back
July 2nd 2019
a week later I walked in after a hard days work.
i had been wearing the curve all day no problem.
'Hi honey. I got banged pretty hard in the bits today'.
"Oh no. again?"
'yeah. it didnt hurt though, I've been wearing this thing since Monday'.
She came right over and grabbed my crotch
" Oooh, that's good, it worked.. Well come on, show it to me."
'um, ok. bit embarrassing though'
"Now!"
'ok,
"omg it's huge".. she wails.
I reply 'yeah. but did the job. it came free with purple soft one which is smaller. ill try it on, see what you think'.
so I Don the silicon cb6000
"Yes" she says " that looks much better" but whats with the lock? it makes it looks like something from bdsm ha ha"
'well I could use ties. but it might fall off and that could be really embarrassing'.
"great. Hopefully no more damage down there then"
and that was that. went a lot better than I'd hoped.
I had tried them both and wasn't happy. the curve fits well but it ridiculouse to wear and the silicone cb6000 just twists and strains when I get hard. just not that happy. but now I've a step in the right direction I'm willing to shop for steel.
I broke one of the curve rings getting it on and claimed it had broke with the impact and i would feel better with something more sturdy
wife agreed straight away realising the benefit of my wearing it at work.
and so I hit the net and order some steel.![Very Happy :D](./images/smilies/icon_e_biggrin.gif)
a week later I walked in after a hard days work.
i had been wearing the curve all day no problem.
'Hi honey. I got banged pretty hard in the bits today'.
"Oh no. again?"
'yeah. it didnt hurt though, I've been wearing this thing since Monday'.
She came right over and grabbed my crotch
" Oooh, that's good, it worked.. Well come on, show it to me."
'um, ok. bit embarrassing though'
"Now!"
'ok,
"omg it's huge".. she wails.
I reply 'yeah. but did the job. it came free with purple soft one which is smaller. ill try it on, see what you think'.
so I Don the silicon cb6000
"Yes" she says " that looks much better" but whats with the lock? it makes it looks like something from bdsm ha ha"
'well I could use ties. but it might fall off and that could be really embarrassing'.
"great. Hopefully no more damage down there then"
and that was that. went a lot better than I'd hoped.
I had tried them both and wasn't happy. the curve fits well but it ridiculouse to wear and the silicone cb6000 just twists and strains when I get hard. just not that happy. but now I've a step in the right direction I'm willing to shop for steel.
I broke one of the curve rings getting it on and claimed it had broke with the impact and i would feel better with something more sturdy
wife agreed straight away realising the benefit of my wearing it at work.
and so I hit the net and order some steel.
![Very Happy :D](./images/smilies/icon_e_biggrin.gif)
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Me. "I only got 30 seconds, that's not fair". C. "life's not fair, suck it up" ![Sad :(](./images/smilies/icon_e_sad.gif)
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Re: [gehngus] one step forwards, two steps back
I hope you have a good answer for her when she searches for PeniGuard and doesn't find it anywhere. Otherwise, great story..!!!
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Re: [Mr Pickle] one step forwards, two steps back
We go away at weekends camping and I do work on the woodlands there. chainsaws. ditches and so on and weekend was coming up.
my wife said I should wear my cage at weekend too. so that's me in self lock 7 days per week with my wife's approval.
now i hoped to find a way to ware at night.
I carried on complaining of a numb penis.
my metal cage arrived. I'd said the curve had been sent back and refunded so it had paid for a better cage.
this cage was small. 2.5" so pushed my penis into my body.
during the day it was actually very comfortable.
Wife said it looked more like a fashion accessory. Small and neat.
I decided to test it at night.
my wife didnt know, she very rarely touches me down there & I didn't want to say I was trying it out without a good enough reason.
big mistake. night erections very uncomfortable. painful but I endured them.
I must have been moaning quite a bit. my wife mistook it for sexual frustration and woke up really horney.
I had to keep her away from my cock. she'd freak.
I offered to go down and tongue and toy fuck her for now and then fuck later.
I said because my bits are still numb from the bang.
My cock and balls were fucking screaming now. especially with all this sex.
my balls were completely soaked with pre cum. this was new.
As soon as she had an orgasm I jumped up to make coffee and went straight to the bathroom.
I was bruised swollen and sore.
still happy as fuck though.
my wife said I should wear my cage at weekend too. so that's me in self lock 7 days per week with my wife's approval.
now i hoped to find a way to ware at night.
I carried on complaining of a numb penis.
my metal cage arrived. I'd said the curve had been sent back and refunded so it had paid for a better cage.
this cage was small. 2.5" so pushed my penis into my body.
during the day it was actually very comfortable.
Wife said it looked more like a fashion accessory. Small and neat.
I decided to test it at night.
my wife didnt know, she very rarely touches me down there & I didn't want to say I was trying it out without a good enough reason.
big mistake. night erections very uncomfortable. painful but I endured them.
I must have been moaning quite a bit. my wife mistook it for sexual frustration and woke up really horney.
I had to keep her away from my cock. she'd freak.
I offered to go down and tongue and toy fuck her for now and then fuck later.
I said because my bits are still numb from the bang.
My cock and balls were fucking screaming now. especially with all this sex.
my balls were completely soaked with pre cum. this was new.
As soon as she had an orgasm I jumped up to make coffee and went straight to the bathroom.
I was bruised swollen and sore.
still happy as fuck though.
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Me. "I only got 30 seconds, that's not fair". C. "life's not fair, suck it up" ![Sad :(](./images/smilies/icon_e_sad.gif)
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Re: [Mr Pickle] one step forwards, two steps back
a week later i was still complaining about the numbness from tools at work.
"does that thing help" she asked
i replied 'yes it does. eventually it will cure it. but how long depends on how often I wear it'
"but you wear it every day"
'Yes. but only for 8 out of 24 hours'
I showed her a leaflet with advice.. wear as much as pos. no masterbation etc.
wear at night for best effect.
well you should wear it at night as well then.
and now I'm locked 24/7 with consent and hoping the wife will get used to my wearing it.
"does that thing help" she asked
i replied 'yes it does. eventually it will cure it. but how long depends on how often I wear it'
"but you wear it every day"
'Yes. but only for 8 out of 24 hours'
I showed her a leaflet with advice.. wear as much as pos. no masterbation etc.
wear at night for best effect.
well you should wear it at night as well then.
and now I'm locked 24/7 with consent and hoping the wife will get used to my wearing it.
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Me. "I only got 30 seconds, that's not fair". C. "life's not fair, suck it up" ![Sad :(](./images/smilies/icon_e_sad.gif)
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Re: [Mr Pickle] one step forwards, two steps back
I knew she wasn't interested enough to look. But if it had come up I had the Web page ready to uploadChastityat60 wrote: ↑Wed Nov 20, 2019 5:37 pm I hope you have a good answer for her when she searches for PeniGuard and doesn't find it anywhere. Otherwise, great story..!!!
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Re: [gehngus] one step forwards, two steps back
Too funny..Gehngus wrote: ↑Thu Nov 21, 2019 4:44 pmI knew she wasn't interested enough to look. But if it had come up I had the Web page ready to uploadChastityat60 wrote: ↑Wed Nov 20, 2019 5:37 pm I hope you have a good answer for her when she searches for PeniGuard and doesn't find it anywhere. Otherwise, great story..!!!. I didn't do it before hand in vase I got an order I couldn’t complete
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Re: [gehngus] one step forwards, two steps back
Sounds to me as if you’re going to a massive amount of trouble to avoid speaking truthfully with your Wife !! On my case that would never get me where i wanted to be in the end !! Sooner or later, if you want to progress, you’ll have to tell Her what you’ve done and so She will feel foolish. In my view, while amusing to a degree, this is a poor way to start anything in a relationship.
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After a year post covid of “freedom” I am trialing a good old HT V3 nub modified by me to have a glans ring so no pullout. Working well so far.
After a year post covid of “freedom” I am trialing a good old HT V3 nub modified by me to have a glans ring so no pullout. Working well so far.