[chastelifexxx] Gay chastity as it is lived
Posted: Fri Mar 29, 2019 12:36 am
Day one of my blog
A bit of background information leading up to me being locked in the Looker 01 Titanium:
We are a married gay couple. We live a "normal" life in every aspect except... my cock is locked away. We argue, we fight, he holds me accountable, and I hold him accountable. We do everything like every other couple we know. Except I am not allowed to cum during sex. Well actually I am not allowed to cum unless my Dom allows it.
About three years ago we found out that me being in chastity brought a whole new dimension to our relationship. Bottom line it made our sex soooo much better. If left up to my own devices, I would jerk off every day, which then leaves me no desire to have sex with my husband. But with me in chastity, I am in a constant state of horniness and I love to have him penetrate me either anally or orally. Love is not the right word. I CRAVE him. I am so totally into pleasing him. I am ready to have sex anytime he wants it. We have actually had sex of some sort 4 times in one day.
Our roles are quite different when it comes to sex. He becomes the Dom and I become the sub. He has all the power to make all decisions when it comes to sex - when, how, how often, and if I cum or not. And since he knows that when I am allowed to cum, my attitude about sex changes abruptly, and I have no desire to have sex, he does not allow me to cum all that often.
I bought a Holy Trainer three years ago. We learned a lot about chastity and about me being in chastity with the Holy Trainer. Now fast forward to current time. My Dom husband is a very visual person. He loves the visual aspect of seeing me when he is fucking me. He loves seeing my cock respond to his movements, and loves to see his cock slide in and out of my ass. With the Holy Trainer he was not able to see my cock in a way that visually pleased him but he loved how the HT made me horny when I was locked in it. So after three years we were ready to move to a different level of me being in chastity. We were ready for a metal chastity device.
He was dead set on it being an open design for a couple of reasons. He wanted it open so hygienically I could stay clean without having to take the device off, and he wanted to be able to see and feel my cock while locked up through the bars. I wanted metal because they are more secure. I also wanted a urethra insert. Just the feeling of my cock being penetrated 24/7 was a very interesting thought. But since I have a metal allergy to nickle, I needed to find a device made in titanium, since the metal was going to be in constant contact with some of the most sensitive internal tissue in the body.
With all these specific wants and needs, there was pretty much only one chastity device that kept coming up in our searches - the Looker 01 Titanium. We ordered it and received it around the first of the year. Due to our traveling scheduling I didn't put it on for a while. The first time was March 1st. It did take some getting used to. I wore it for about 6 hours the first day and increased the hours each day until after the 5th day I wore it for a straight 24 hours. All went well. Then I lost one a part to the device - the urethra tube locking nut. I was a bit afraid to continue to wear it until I could replace that part. So for about a week I was out of chastity. And of course or sex life that week also suffered. I just can't help jerking off. The male climax is a powerful instinct, and quite addicting. Ordering the locking nut that matched my device was sort of not realistic. The device is hand made in Germany and it just didn't make sense to order a little piece of hardware from half way around the world when I could go to Homo Depot and find something that worked. I was able to find a stainless steel locking nut in a metric size. It worked. So now that the device was again fully restored, I put it back on. The picture in the Member's Lounge at viewtopic.php?f=10&t=63215 is a copy of the text I sent to my Dom husband showing him I was once again securely locked back up and secure. His joy was immediate.
So on March 22nd the Looker 01 went on and has not been off since. There has been not one issue at all with wearing it continuously for the last week. The most comfortable device I have ever worn.
We have established rules that I must observe. Most are when we are in the Dom/sub roles, but a couple I must follow at all times. The rules are as follows:
1) I must be nude in the house at all times when appropriate. (must be follow at all times)
2) Any time my Dom husband comes up to me and places his fingers on my nipples, I must raise my arms over and behind my head and allow him full access to "His" nipples. (must follow at all times)
3) If he is traveling out of town, I am allowed and encouraged to use a dildo to perform deep throat oral exercises to keep my gag reflex to a minimum.
4) If he is traveling out of town, I am allowed and encouraged to use a dildo to fuck my ass and tease my prostate. Milking my prostate is allowable.
5) If cum oozes out, it must be reported to Dom immediately via text.
6) I must swallow any precum or cum if any is expressed during milking or during sex.
7) I must keep my ass clean and ready for sex at any time.
8) After sex, I am encouraged to take Dom's cock from ass to mouth to clean any cum from his cock.
9) If he should so choose to cum in my mouth, I must keep his cum on my tongue until he is finished cumming completely, then swallow only when directed by Dom
10) If Dom should choose to cum on my face, I am not allowed to clean His cum off until directed to do so by Dom.
Week one wearing the Looker 01 is history. Week two begins.
So here starts the updates chronicling my life being chaste and the sexual adventures to cum.
NOTICE - pictures related to the story will be posted in the Member's Lounge under the same name as the blog, per the rules of the board. viewtopic.php?f=10&t=63215
A bit of background information leading up to me being locked in the Looker 01 Titanium:
We are a married gay couple. We live a "normal" life in every aspect except... my cock is locked away. We argue, we fight, he holds me accountable, and I hold him accountable. We do everything like every other couple we know. Except I am not allowed to cum during sex. Well actually I am not allowed to cum unless my Dom allows it.
About three years ago we found out that me being in chastity brought a whole new dimension to our relationship. Bottom line it made our sex soooo much better. If left up to my own devices, I would jerk off every day, which then leaves me no desire to have sex with my husband. But with me in chastity, I am in a constant state of horniness and I love to have him penetrate me either anally or orally. Love is not the right word. I CRAVE him. I am so totally into pleasing him. I am ready to have sex anytime he wants it. We have actually had sex of some sort 4 times in one day.
Our roles are quite different when it comes to sex. He becomes the Dom and I become the sub. He has all the power to make all decisions when it comes to sex - when, how, how often, and if I cum or not. And since he knows that when I am allowed to cum, my attitude about sex changes abruptly, and I have no desire to have sex, he does not allow me to cum all that often.
I bought a Holy Trainer three years ago. We learned a lot about chastity and about me being in chastity with the Holy Trainer. Now fast forward to current time. My Dom husband is a very visual person. He loves the visual aspect of seeing me when he is fucking me. He loves seeing my cock respond to his movements, and loves to see his cock slide in and out of my ass. With the Holy Trainer he was not able to see my cock in a way that visually pleased him but he loved how the HT made me horny when I was locked in it. So after three years we were ready to move to a different level of me being in chastity. We were ready for a metal chastity device.
He was dead set on it being an open design for a couple of reasons. He wanted it open so hygienically I could stay clean without having to take the device off, and he wanted to be able to see and feel my cock while locked up through the bars. I wanted metal because they are more secure. I also wanted a urethra insert. Just the feeling of my cock being penetrated 24/7 was a very interesting thought. But since I have a metal allergy to nickle, I needed to find a device made in titanium, since the metal was going to be in constant contact with some of the most sensitive internal tissue in the body.
With all these specific wants and needs, there was pretty much only one chastity device that kept coming up in our searches - the Looker 01 Titanium. We ordered it and received it around the first of the year. Due to our traveling scheduling I didn't put it on for a while. The first time was March 1st. It did take some getting used to. I wore it for about 6 hours the first day and increased the hours each day until after the 5th day I wore it for a straight 24 hours. All went well. Then I lost one a part to the device - the urethra tube locking nut. I was a bit afraid to continue to wear it until I could replace that part. So for about a week I was out of chastity. And of course or sex life that week also suffered. I just can't help jerking off. The male climax is a powerful instinct, and quite addicting. Ordering the locking nut that matched my device was sort of not realistic. The device is hand made in Germany and it just didn't make sense to order a little piece of hardware from half way around the world when I could go to Homo Depot and find something that worked. I was able to find a stainless steel locking nut in a metric size. It worked. So now that the device was again fully restored, I put it back on. The picture in the Member's Lounge at viewtopic.php?f=10&t=63215 is a copy of the text I sent to my Dom husband showing him I was once again securely locked back up and secure. His joy was immediate.
So on March 22nd the Looker 01 went on and has not been off since. There has been not one issue at all with wearing it continuously for the last week. The most comfortable device I have ever worn.
We have established rules that I must observe. Most are when we are in the Dom/sub roles, but a couple I must follow at all times. The rules are as follows:
1) I must be nude in the house at all times when appropriate. (must be follow at all times)
2) Any time my Dom husband comes up to me and places his fingers on my nipples, I must raise my arms over and behind my head and allow him full access to "His" nipples. (must follow at all times)
3) If he is traveling out of town, I am allowed and encouraged to use a dildo to perform deep throat oral exercises to keep my gag reflex to a minimum.
4) If he is traveling out of town, I am allowed and encouraged to use a dildo to fuck my ass and tease my prostate. Milking my prostate is allowable.
5) If cum oozes out, it must be reported to Dom immediately via text.
6) I must swallow any precum or cum if any is expressed during milking or during sex.
7) I must keep my ass clean and ready for sex at any time.
8) After sex, I am encouraged to take Dom's cock from ass to mouth to clean any cum from his cock.
9) If he should so choose to cum in my mouth, I must keep his cum on my tongue until he is finished cumming completely, then swallow only when directed by Dom
10) If Dom should choose to cum on my face, I am not allowed to clean His cum off until directed to do so by Dom.
Week one wearing the Looker 01 is history. Week two begins.
So here starts the updates chronicling my life being chaste and the sexual adventures to cum.
NOTICE - pictures related to the story will be posted in the Member's Lounge under the same name as the blog, per the rules of the board. viewtopic.php?f=10&t=63215