Re: [Afrinadian] Our new lifestyle begins
Posted: Sat May 21, 2016 3:19 am
It's been a little tricky logging into the site since the hack... too bad
A lot has changed since my last post, AJ has certainly taken chastity to the next level. She's starting to realize that I have accepted her as the dominant one in the house and she's starting to realize that she enjoys it. Things have been going slow for many years, but now that we have a JB that she really likes, she's coming into her own.
Although it's frustrating as hell to be locked up sometimes, it's been really enjoyable watching AJ grow in the area of our relationship. One thing we agreed on years ago was that while I'm locked up, she's the boss. AJ always found that tiresome and a bit of a burden till we sat down over the course of some months and talked it out.
She has come to realize that she doesn't have the highest libido and that she actually does enjoy being in charge and finally admitting it to me.
Evidence of this is starting to creep out through daily life where she'll just randomly tell me to do something. AJ's now starting to order me about, albeit subtly, in front of family. In front of her best friends, It's a lot less subtle, she just comes out with it. She's done negotiating with me about things and she's not afraid to use the key as a threat. Before, it was always a very sweet request. AJ's definitely loosening up.
Oh yeah, AJ wears the key 24/7 now she says it helps her remember who's in charge and finds it a turn on knowing it's out there for everybody to see but it's still the big secret. AJ's also admitted that she wishes someone would open up to her about living the chastity life as she has warned me that she'd spill all the beans to them too. I've tried to get AJ to join the forum or even read some material about the subject, but she says it makes her really uncomfortable. I've placed a Chastity PDF onto her phone which she knows about and I have promised never to bring it up again as it causes tension.
So, I was locked up for about month last time and let out so AJ could play. She enjoys PIV, so I got some mind-blowing orgasms too which was nice.
AJ ended up having me unlocked for a week and finally, after she'd had enough, I was ordered back into the JB on May 17th.
I'm still getting used to the new arrangement as we've always had calculated release dates based on behaviour. This time, It's loosely based on that, but it's more along the lines of no schedule, rather when AJ feels like it, I get used and put back in my cage. My behaviour just has an effect of how much teasing I get. The worse I behave, the less teasing I get... simple system for her really.
Since my last long-term internment before April of this year was at the end on 2014, This has been a harder re-entry compared to previous times we ended a break. I feel this time is different though. It feels a lot more permanent and AJ even wants me to call her Madam on occasion (her suggestion, not mine)
I think it makes her feel more powerful? I have no idea. I know she likes it though.
So I'm locked again
As of May 17th 2016
No release date on the horizon
I'm not allowed to ask, AJ gets angry about that
AJ now wears the key 24/7
A lot has changed since my last post, AJ has certainly taken chastity to the next level. She's starting to realize that I have accepted her as the dominant one in the house and she's starting to realize that she enjoys it. Things have been going slow for many years, but now that we have a JB that she really likes, she's coming into her own.
Although it's frustrating as hell to be locked up sometimes, it's been really enjoyable watching AJ grow in the area of our relationship. One thing we agreed on years ago was that while I'm locked up, she's the boss. AJ always found that tiresome and a bit of a burden till we sat down over the course of some months and talked it out.
She has come to realize that she doesn't have the highest libido and that she actually does enjoy being in charge and finally admitting it to me.
Evidence of this is starting to creep out through daily life where she'll just randomly tell me to do something. AJ's now starting to order me about, albeit subtly, in front of family. In front of her best friends, It's a lot less subtle, she just comes out with it. She's done negotiating with me about things and she's not afraid to use the key as a threat. Before, it was always a very sweet request. AJ's definitely loosening up.
Oh yeah, AJ wears the key 24/7 now she says it helps her remember who's in charge and finds it a turn on knowing it's out there for everybody to see but it's still the big secret. AJ's also admitted that she wishes someone would open up to her about living the chastity life as she has warned me that she'd spill all the beans to them too. I've tried to get AJ to join the forum or even read some material about the subject, but she says it makes her really uncomfortable. I've placed a Chastity PDF onto her phone which she knows about and I have promised never to bring it up again as it causes tension.
So, I was locked up for about month last time and let out so AJ could play. She enjoys PIV, so I got some mind-blowing orgasms too which was nice.
AJ ended up having me unlocked for a week and finally, after she'd had enough, I was ordered back into the JB on May 17th.
I'm still getting used to the new arrangement as we've always had calculated release dates based on behaviour. This time, It's loosely based on that, but it's more along the lines of no schedule, rather when AJ feels like it, I get used and put back in my cage. My behaviour just has an effect of how much teasing I get. The worse I behave, the less teasing I get... simple system for her really.
Since my last long-term internment before April of this year was at the end on 2014, This has been a harder re-entry compared to previous times we ended a break. I feel this time is different though. It feels a lot more permanent and AJ even wants me to call her Madam on occasion (her suggestion, not mine)
I think it makes her feel more powerful? I have no idea. I know she likes it though.
So I'm locked again
As of May 17th 2016
No release date on the horizon
I'm not allowed to ask, AJ gets angry about that
AJ now wears the key 24/7