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Sounds like some dye came off the cage. Can happen with plastic cages, especially newer ones.

I bought 2 knockoffs before the real thing, both from the same vendor. One was horrendous quality, cage was actually 2 piece construction and cracked within 2 days and the rings were very brittle ( I could crack them with just a small flex). The 2nd looked pretty good but the cage still cracked on t...

In my experience, a little bit of lube inside the cage (head area only) goes a long way to keeping things lined up, assuming a cage with appropriate length. Without it, movement can cause the head to gradually rise up a bit and misalign/turtle due to friction. The lube lets it slip back into its spo...

I’ve worn cheap cages from Amazon and DHgate all the way to mature metal jailbird and the Cherrykeeper and have to say the only one that has allowed me to stay 24/7 for months at a time is the Kink3d Cobra. It is beyond comfortable for me. Have you ever tried a knockoff? Like, the ones you find on ...

If have a metal cage, you should be able to bend it to adjust ball gap. Especially easy on the type with a single post for the pad lock, but any type can be adjusted with a bit more convincing. For the amount you are realistically trying to adjust, there is little worry of actually damaging the cage.

On the alcohol front, we're occasional/casual drinkers. I will say that the lowered inhibitions after a night of drinking wine leads to many breakthroughs that often continue without alcohol afterwards. Sometimes just getting through that barrier is needed and then it comes much more naturally later...

The point that I'll decide, and only me, is what I had to go with. Otherwise he's always trying to manipulate me into playing the game his way. I felt like a marionette having my strings pulled before. So that's why I made it the way I did. So far, so good. Being clear about that is the best way. Y...

She said that sex is not about games, it’s about intimacy - so we are clearly on very different pages. She also in heated moments on occasion expresses her desire to be dominated (again not sure if this is just in the “having my way with her sense” or if she has any 50 shades-esque fantasies. But w...

The couple has reasonably open communication about sex This is the biggest barrier to knock down... Without it, anytime you bring up chastity or orgasm denial can be a hard stop leaving her wondering what the heck is wrong with either you or, more likely, her. Unfortunately, communication is a big ...

Ever since going to magiclocker (cylinder) style locks, My wife hasn't worn a key because they are so much larger, so I went out to rectify that with experimenting on extra keys, Grinding/filing down to smaller profiles. Excuse the rust on the padlock keys, been years since we used one. Lots of extr...