Chastity Forums

With us, chastity has evolved over a number of years, and now we do what She wants 100% of the time. I've been in permanent penile orgasm denial for some years, but this has evolved from caged to mostly caged to today's arrangement. She noticed that it takes a few days to settle into being relocked,...

TBF I would have thought that having the lock seize up is the fantasy of many of us on here.

Are you planning to be casually naked in your roomie's presence? I'd try to sound him out about his attitude to non-vanilla, and if you think he's ok, have a talk about what works for you. You never know, you could have more in common than you expect. Otherwise, carry on as now and let him think you...

Your boyfriend seems to be selfish and a taker. Any friend, boy, girl or other, should be concerned if their partner is unfulfilled.

Sorry to ask, but are you sure he's worth it?

I wouldn't necessarily think about websites. Presumably, your wife is internet-literate and is able to find sites should she want to. My own experience is that the onus is on me to show her the advantages of the kink/lifestyle, so attentiveness, good demeanour, helping with chores, but definitely no...

Chastity is in the mind - the cage is really just a tool, so no, human ingenuity will always find a way. If people could escape from Alcatraz or Devil's Island then a bit of metal or plastic around your junk isn't a huge problem. Lots of men practise chastity without a cage using the honour system. ...

A couple of things spring to mind if impact play isn't your thing. First is good old-fashioned bondage. Tie him up and leave him to ponder his transgressions. This could be on a bed or tied to a chair, or use your imagination. With a light chain and padlock you could secure him to something via his ...

Yes, I did some naked gardening last Saturday. A rare sunny day in northern England. I did though stay in the half of my garden which isn't overseen by neighbours. Great fun.

Lots of good advice here. Yes, time. Let her move at her own pace.

For people who don't know about our lifestyle choices/kinks, revelation can come as a bit of a shock - it is counter-intuitive to most folks. I'm sure this applies to medical professionals also. The strong consensus is that what we do is safe - so long as we're sensible and don't ignore pains and ch...