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My first release My wife was initially averse to touching or even looking at my chastity cage. That has changed over time but she doesn't seem overly interested in it. We discussed waiting for my first release and orgasm until my birthday which would have been 4 weeks + 3 days. But I told her it was...

avid fan wrote: ↑Mon Sep 13, 2021 12:06 pm I don't recall if you mentioned, but does C get you to fuck her with a dildo often??... seems she could get more pleasure from that than you, no offense!

Too funny!

The Classroom The concepts of chastity, being a keyholder, tease & denial, and the affects these have on the dynamics of a marriage were all so new to both of us during these first couple of weeks. I hadn’t researched any of this prior to starting to experiment with chastity. It all evolved for ...

The Agreement I came up with the following during the first week of our restored life of intimacy and presented to my wife (D). She loved it. I should make a few comments for clarity: - I had been sleeping most nights on a sofa because of sleeping difficulties in a traditional bed but these had reso...

The Honeymoon The night after having the conversation, we had the hottest sex of our lives up to that point. All without removing the cage and without an orgasm for me. It was amazing! We spent the night exploring each other’s bodies turned on by the slightest touch. This began a week long honeymoon...

The Conversation I continued to read other websites that recommended weeks of denial supported by frequent teasing as I prepared to see my wife again and have the conversation. I didn’t think the time together with family sharing a rental house would be the best time for the discussion so I was prep...

The decision to come out of the closet I had another 1-2 week lockup later that year which were the longest until mid-January when I left for a long ski trip out west. At that point, I was ready to resume sexual relations with my wife but wanted to save myself and started my previous mentioned locku...

How Chastity worked for me As I mentioned in a previous post, I started using chastity to help me manage my weight. Previously, I would lose weight only to gain it back again. I bought a chastity device and then would punish myself if I didn't meet a weight loss target each week. This proved effecti...

No, we're not talking about the chastity break-in period. Initial lock-up comes after that. From the website, the break-in period is getting adjusted to wearing it once you've got the fit correct on the device ; She views the "real lock-up" as two phases - (1) an initial lock-up that re-t...

The author of Secret to a Happy Marriage https://happy-marriage.neocities.org/when.htm states that an initial lock-up of 3-6 months is necessary to break the cycle of masturbation and re-wire the male brain to focus on his wife/ gf/ mistress instead of his own sexual needs. Have you tried this? Was...