Chastity Forums

We are mid-40s. Chastity has raised the temperature in our sex life, following the usual cooling off that occurs with getting older and raising a family. If my wife had put me in chastity when we were 25, I probably would have gone crazy! I admire what you are doing.

I have been practicing chastity for just over one year now and my philosophy has formed as a result of the benefits I have experienced. The philosophy is an economic one, based on supply and demand. Supply of my orgasms is determined by my wife and it’s now a lot lower than in previous years. Demand...

Wonderful teasing on the couch yesterday. My wife and I were watching our favourite team play on Sunday when she pulled a blanket over the two of us and began softly stroking my crotch through my jeans. “Take it out,” she whispered in my ear, and I quickly obliged. She then gently ran her fingers up...

Earlier this week, I was working from home and my wife had a day off. She was indulging in reality TV shows while I joined a series of conference calls. I finally finished this onslaught of meetings and came over to talk to her. As I stood next to her, sitting on the couch, she asked me when she wou...

Yesterday, my wife and I had an argument in the evening. I was glad that we were able to resolve things before it was time to go to sleep. In chastity, I find that I am increasingly focused on her happiness and I find it more upsetting when she is angry with me. In the past, I would think of her ang...

One of the things that I find to be a bit of a struggle is sleeping well in chastity. And I am not even caged, so it’s not about chafing or other physical discomfort. For me, it’s all about what’s going on in my head. I wake up with horny thoughts in the middle of the night and my imagination starts...

My wife teased me in some new ways this past week. On Thursday, I went for a run in the early morning while she slept. After my shower she called me to bed to snuggle with her in the dark. We have snuggled a lot lately as nights have become colder. She was pleasantly surprised that I was still naked...

A quick question for those who have tried OC with both the honor system and with a device: What’s the difference for you and your relationship? I mean, the main thing is letting your partner control your orgasms, right? Does the device itself make a huge difference? I am not in a cage. (Encouraging ...

My wife had to go out of town with the kids for a few days, returning this past Saturday. The separation really adds to the buildup for me. It had also been two weeks since my last orgasm— not a long time for many of the contributors in this forum but pretty long for me. My wife also indulged in som...

Wife: “I think my period is coming tomorrow.” Me: “I think you are right. It’s about that time. I guess I will be abstaining a bit longer now.” Wife: (caressing my cock through pants) “I don’t know, maybe you should get yourself off... but you would probably like your wife to do it, wouldn’t you?” M...