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by focUSed
Sun Dec 26, 2021 3:08 pm
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: I’m wondering if this would help??
Replies: 14
Views: 3922
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Re: I’m wondering if this would help??

I haven't found enough room to wear any weights while in my device and since starting in 2018, we haven't really done much with the weight. She recently mentioned using it again, or something else (cock/glans rings were the topic de jour) as a way to spice up the variety of being in a device so much...
by focUSed
Fri Dec 24, 2021 9:35 pm
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [focused] down the road we go...
Replies: 89
Views: 608744
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[focused] down the road we go...

Recognizing that tomorrow is a special day for many people, I just wanted to acknowledge that it is also a personally special day. Per my tracking numbers, tomorrow will tie our record for the longest continuous* wear period since starting this journey at 27 days. Minor caveat; as always, statistics...
by focUSed
Fri Dec 24, 2021 8:44 pm
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: I’m wondering if this would help??
Replies: 14
Views: 3922
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Re: I’m wondering if this would help??

I have worn a stretcher/weight in the past too but even now, it depends on how the boys 'hang' as to how high they ride. When things are very relaxed, they're not up against the cage at all and there is plenty of room below (and in) the current device. But when they're cold, or unrelaxed for whateve...
by focUSed
Tue Dec 21, 2021 12:08 pm
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: The search begins...
Replies: 13
Views: 4164
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Re: The search begins...

If it doesn’t wake you you’re not wearing it !! I disagree. I've worn mine overnight 64% of the time since Jul 2018, and 50% of this year alone, and sleep through the night just fine. Overnight wear doesn't have to be painful, nor does it have to wake you up, to provide validity to the wearer or th...
by focUSed
Thu Dec 16, 2021 1:07 pm
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [focused] down the road we go...
Replies: 89
Views: 608744
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[focused] down the road we go...

Crazy couple of weeks recently so I had scheduled a massage in an attempt to get a break and enjoy a little 'me' time while relaxing. She knew about it and, as she has hinted before, I awaited her casual reminder that I was to remove the cage during the massage and was prepared to have the key with ...
by focUSed
Thu Dec 16, 2021 10:47 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Hot things your keyholder has said!
Replies: 1040
Views: 1410522
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Re: Hot things your keyholder has said!

A few days back after a VERY frustrating week: "Hmmm...do you think you could get there now? In the cage?" when I told her I probably could... "Then do it please. So I can have a reason to punish you next week. ;) " and when things were underway... "I read that cumming in th...
by focUSed
Wed Nov 17, 2021 11:06 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Hot things your keyholder has said!
Replies: 1040
Views: 1410522
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Re: Hot things your keyholder has said!

After letting her know I was taking tomorrow off to start my weekend early (she is planning to visit starting tomorrow night), and that I might have a little horny coming on, the conversation turned toward her recent reading of the KH pages and what she found there: She: 'I should probably try to fo...
by focUSed
Wed Nov 17, 2021 10:51 pm
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [focused] down the road we go...
Replies: 89
Views: 608744
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[focused] down the road we go...

Had an awesome 'weekend' together last week during my time off and her holiday day off. We were busy being domestic, I got to fix a couple things, and we spent some high quality time together. We didn't get everything done that we had planned but it was a productive visit nonetheless. And although s...
by focUSed
Mon Nov 08, 2021 7:39 pm
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [focused] down the road we go...
Replies: 89
Views: 608744
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[focused] down the road we go...

Hard to believe it's been a month already again! Our conversation ref Locktober resulted in a decision that we would be attempting to make it more about denial than chastity; as I've said before, she enjoys PIV and using her hands on me, and I very much enjoy both as well! So we didn't really worry ...
by focUSed
Mon Nov 08, 2021 11:12 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Stints in chastity vs. locked when "not in use"
Replies: 9
Views: 2669
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Re: Stints in chastity vs. locked when "not in use"

We're currently in the same situation; living two hours apart, see each other 3-4 times a month. She enjoys me being out (as do I) but likes knowing things are safe and secure when we're apart.