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by focUSed
Sun Aug 14, 2022 3:49 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Beach / laying down advice?
Replies: 7
Views: 3411
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Re: Beach / laying down advice?

I sleep on a fairly firm (at least at first, and in the winter!) Tempurpedic mattress. One technique I use is to make first contact with the case and move slightly upward as I lower fully onto whatever surface I'm laying on. That effectively moves the cage/body parts downward more between the upper ...
by focUSed
Tue Aug 09, 2022 7:15 pm
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [focused] down the road we go...
Replies: 89
Views: 607492
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[focused] down the road we go...

Well, she saw the comment above pretty quickly and I think has taken it to heart. There has been more discussion about our activity and how it revolves around our limited opportunities to be collocated. So for the time being, it comes off, usually on our first night together, although there have bee...
by focUSed
Mon Jul 11, 2022 11:48 am
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Unknown device
Replies: 4
Views: 1935
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Re: Unknown device

Looks to me like the boys tuck into the basket at the left after the scrotal skin is trapped in the small section with the installed lock. The shaft appears to be passed through the top of the main vertical structure, then pointed downward via the basket directly to the right and captured by the sep...
by focUSed
Sat Jun 18, 2022 9:37 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Fun games to play with Chastity
Replies: 22
Views: 32647
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Re: Fun games to play with Chastity

Buy a deck of cards and shuffle them. Discussed this post with her. Not good timing right now given we only see each other every couple of weeks, but she is definitely on board with the idea of making it random vs her decision! Hopefully we will remember this when the time comes, as we think it cou...
by focUSed
Tue May 24, 2022 6:52 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Punish idea?
Replies: 10
Views: 5072
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Re: Punish idea?

Akire wrote: Tue May 24, 2022 7:51 am I want him not to ask me what to do, he must know.
I think you'll find most people here know this doesn't work, but good luck.
by focUSed
Sat May 14, 2022 12:43 pm
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [focused] down the road we go...
Replies: 89
Views: 607492
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[focused] down the road we go...

We recently have been discussing Lucy Fairbourne's book Femdom for Nice Girls which was ordered out of curiosity. It was light reading at first and involved being asked to write down thoughts about the subjects presented. I think her comment centered on, 'If I wanted to keep a journal, I'd write a b...
by focUSed
Sun May 08, 2022 5:25 pm
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [focused] down the road we go...
Replies: 89
Views: 607492
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[focused] down the road we go...

The idea that I should always have a key with me for emergencies was sort of 'tested' in late February. I was travelling back south to visit my cousin who had just gotten out of the hospital when I began to experience what are now somewhat familiar pains in my side which felt like another (my third)...
by focUSed
Sun May 08, 2022 3:02 pm
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [focused] down the road we go...
Replies: 89
Views: 607492
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[focused] down the road we go...

Oh my, how time flies! As mentioned below, it was a record setting Christmas, and beyond! And since, there have been more on days than off; however, I think I'm back to tracking the removals regardless of reason. There have been overnight visits, at least one massage, one doctor's visit, etc. As a c...
by focUSed
Fri May 06, 2022 3:57 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Hot things your keyholder has said!
Replies: 1040
Views: 1406265
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Re: Hot things your keyholder has said!

after I sent her a video https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph61db1fb404dd6 : she: Do you ever want another destination? me: Absolutely, lol, I'm crazy, not stupid! she: Lol, ok good. Because I really enjoy giving you that! me: But you know I enjoy the tease and denial she: I know! me: S...
by focUSed
Mon Dec 27, 2021 9:56 pm
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: I’m wondering if this would help??
Replies: 14
Views: 3906
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Re: I’m wondering if this would help??

I also have one that sits lower than the other; I consider it an asset and don't worry about rotation. I do find that when it's rotated it's also slightly less prominent because the lock sits off to the side rather than directly in front. Everything gets repositioned in the bathroom, then returned t...