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by Tom Allen
Wed Sep 30, 2020 10:35 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Strap On sex Revisited
Replies: 10
Views: 662

Re: Strap On sex Revisited

We tried warming up the dildo and Mistress said it made all the difference in the world. I think that a lot of women who say "It doesn't feel like the real thing" are partly responding to the large discrepancy between body temperature and room temperature. There is easily a 20º - 30º F degree diffe...
by Tom Allen
Mon Sep 28, 2020 12:04 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Denial amplifying fantasies.
Replies: 5
Views: 194

Re: Denial amplifying fantasies.

if she does want to push the boundaries of our sex life im also thinking maybe I shouldn’t cum? Maybe I need to stay in this headspace or I’ll lose interest and regret what we would do. I think most guys are familiar with the concept of things being really hot when you're horned up, but then seemin...
by Tom Allen
Mon Sep 28, 2020 11:00 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Hot things your keyholder has said!
Replies: 709
Views: 294132

Re: Hot things your keyholder has said!

(Mrs Edge has kept me locked and denied since March of 2018. We have settled into a twice a week lovemaking routine, usually a midweek evening, and a weekend morning, with me wearing my Vixskin strapon. That's when our conversations usually happen). Her: "You really spoil me by heating this (the VI...
by Tom Allen
Sun Sep 27, 2020 8:18 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Dating and chastity advice
Replies: 7
Views: 255

Re: Dating and chastity advice

Here's my advice, worth what you paid for it. If you are dating outside of your social circle (ie, she's not known to your friends) by the 3rd, 4th, maybe 5th date, you need to let her know that you're a bit kinky. Don't make a big deal over it, just explain that just as kids, pets, job, religion, p...
by Tom Allen
Sat Sep 26, 2020 5:04 am
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Smaller base ring?
Replies: 10
Views: 226

Re: Smaller base ring?

A hinged ring that doesn't chafe and irritate?
by Tom Allen
Wed Sep 23, 2020 6:45 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: First time wearer
Replies: 18
Views: 562

Re: First time wearer

* sigh *

The nuance doesn't always come through.

I was referring to the wide variety of answers that I expected people to throw at him. Plastic. No, steel! Longer. Shorter. Cheap. Custom. etc.
by Tom Allen
Tue Sep 22, 2020 8:28 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: First time wearer
Replies: 18
Views: 562

Re: First time wearer

... and here we go!
by Tom Allen
Thu Sep 10, 2020 9:50 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Initiating Sex in Chastity
Replies: 14
Views: 1714

Re: Initiating Sex in Chastity

We have found that during these Covid-19 times of us both being home during the day that the spur of the moment mid afternoon encounter has been fun. We've had a few of those, except that I'm usually at work M-F and sometimes on Sat. And our daughter lives at home, and she works pretty much the sam...
by Tom Allen
Thu Sep 10, 2020 5:08 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Initiating Sex in Chastity
Replies: 14
Views: 1714

Re: Initiating Sex in Chastity

The idea I'd initiate sex while caged would be just weird. Funny, every relationship is different. I'm often "initiating" even while locked, and even knowing that I'll remain locked. However, our current work/home life is such that we found it easier to make regular date nights... on a weekend morn...