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I used to masturbate pretty frequently. Almost daily in addition to sex with Red.
I thought it would be something I’d miss, but giving up masturbation has been the easiest part of chastity, so I don’t really have any "worst time of day".

I’d recommend ordering several cheap cages with different sizes for the cage itself and the base ring. Measure his flaccid length and subtract about 15-20% when you order the cage. You’re almost guaranteed to receive a cage that will be wrong in one or more ways at first, but that will hopefully giv...

Well the first thing I’d say is that there’s some underlying issues between you that chastity in itself won’t solve, but you’re adults and can probably figure that out. Then it’s the simple fact that unless he gets a PA piercing and a cage that uses a PA lock he can always pull out of the cage and s...

Well the spikes aren’t really doing much when I’m soft It didn’t do anything for pulling out. If you look at then you can see that they don’t confirm to the curve of the ring, so they don’t do what you’d expect them to. An when I got hard it wasn’t particularly painful, but it did make a mark that w...

I tried a similar thing. It’s not suitable for longer periods of being locked imo.

Indeed! It’s letting us be intimate in ways we’d never imagine a few years ago.
Reds really spoiling me lately!

Last night was intense. It started in the shower. We washed each other, and it was erotic from the first touch. But it shifted when she told me to kneel and wash her feet. I was down there, soaking wet, and I couldn’t help myself. I kissed her toes. I needed to. She didn’t tell me to, but it felt li...

Blindfolded. Cuffs on my wrists. Kneeling on the bed as I waited for Red to come back to the bedroom, just as she’d instructed. I had no idea what was in store for me, but it was clear she had something in mind. I was excited. Nervous, but excited. When she returned, she walked softly, almost sneaki...

And it’s not even over yet!
She’s more or less let me know she’s got something planned for tonight!

Today reminded me why I love serving Red, not just sexually, but in every part of life. She was in a temper when I got home. Clearly stressed, but she named it for what it was. She didn’t take it out on me, just admitted she was overwhelmed. That alone meant a lot. I gently pointed out that we had t...