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by SteveOD
Sat Sep 03, 2022 7:18 pm
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: After 11 years, the HT Nub is the one for me.
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After 11 years, the HT Nub is the one for me.

I have spent about $2K on chastity devices. Some custom, many well known brands and most cheap ones to try out the style. I wear a cage 24/7/365. It came off twice when I was sent to the emergency room for surgery. Other than that I wear it 99% of the time. I no longer am allowed to remove it for cl...
by SteveOD
Fri Sep 02, 2022 9:50 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Would you accept no more orgasms to save marriage?
Replies: 10
Views: 6278
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Would you accept no more orgasms to save marriage?

This will make my wife sound terrible when in fact she is great. I have written my story elsewhere a few times but here is condensed version: Me: Sterile, under endowed, erectile disfunction untreatable. Unable to have intercourse. Oral was out due to ED and it took up to an hour for me too make mys...
by SteveOD
Tue Aug 30, 2022 8:59 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Which key holder to choose
Replies: 8
Views: 4207
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Re: Which key holder to choose

The brutal truth that you will not want to hear is that chastity has as very small chance of success unless your key holder is a loved one. You are describing self locking. That is not chastity because chastity play involves lots of sex and you do not have any sexual relationship with the people you...
by SteveOD
Mon Aug 29, 2022 9:14 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: How did you get started if the key holder was reluctant?
Replies: 7
Views: 2919
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Re: How did you get started if the key holder was reluctant?

What worked for us was going on the honor system first. I explained about Tantric Sex and how much it intensifies orgasms when you do have them. However, you are not asking her to delay her orgasms but would like to try delaying yours. Just tell her not to let you come during sex the next time and a...
by SteveOD
Mon Aug 29, 2022 8:50 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: After you are allowed to ejaculate?
Replies: 24
Views: 12755
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Re: After you are allowed to ejaculate?

For us, chastity is no ejaculation at all. My penis does not exist in our marriage. I am forbidden to refer to it or get caned. Canning hurts and leaves welts so I have no penis. :) In the past I was given ruined and real orgasms. I always felt let down. I worked hard to go months without ejaculatin...
by SteveOD
Sun Aug 28, 2022 7:39 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: What about the problem that cages don't work?
Replies: 16
Views: 5492
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Re: What about the problem that cages don't work?

I can always spot a wannabe living his sex life online because they do not know what you know. They claim that they never can ejaculate. For gosh sake don't these guys watch chastity porn and see all the ways to orgasm when locked up? :D I tell anyone who will listen, unless you have self control an...
by SteveOD
Sun Aug 28, 2022 7:29 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Security screw loosening?
Replies: 18
Views: 5096
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Re: Security screw loosening?

I know this is an old post but anyone else with the security screw that comes with Mature Metal devices still has the problem. There actually are two problems. The first is that the round head of the screw sits in a round post so that you can grasp the screw head with pliers and unscrew it very easi...
by SteveOD
Sun Aug 21, 2022 7:22 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: locked and forgot?
Replies: 19
Views: 31822
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Re: locked and forgot?

My wife is a locked and forget kind of gal and that is what I like. She shared her girlfriend with me for 30 years and no feels that she she not only included me when she had sex with her GF but also allowed me unlimited sex time with her GF. My wife never cared who I had sex with anyway because she...
by SteveOD
Sun Aug 21, 2022 11:59 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: A question, long term denial then cumming
Replies: 4
Views: 2990
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Re: A question, long term denial then cumming

I have only gone 6 months orgasm free but when I did have an orgasm due to my wife insisting, it was not very good. Very little semen and the strain left my Penis sore. Was not worth it. Just locked up again as wife has been sick and no sex for a long time and no relief in site. Plus our 50th annive...
by SteveOD
Sun Aug 21, 2022 11:56 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Getting circumcised and chastity
Replies: 34
Views: 17760
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Re: Getting circumcised and chastity

I was circumcised when I was 25 due to constant foreskin issues. You will not be wearing a cage for a month or more. I laid in bed naked so that nothing touched me down there as it was painful. You have to wait for the stitches to dissolve and then a follow doctor visit before you do anything that m...