Search found 10 matches

by Dan4201
Wed Jan 29, 2020 7:00 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Best toys for those new to toys
Replies: 15
Views: 4826
Gender:

Re: Best toys for those new to toys

I personally wouldn't start with a Hitachi, those things are intense and likely just to scare the hell out of her. The Hitachi still scares my wife and she's a seasoned toy user. I would start with something small and not intimidating i.e. a little bullet vibrator. You can play around outside with ...
by Dan4201
Sun Jan 26, 2020 8:23 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Best toys for those new to toys
Replies: 15
Views: 4826
Gender:

Re: Best toys for those new to toys

Thank you, everyone! It sounds like a vibrator like the Hitachi and an insertable like other a Vixskin or Purewand are likely to be the best place to try to start. I think the first toy will be the biggest risk. Given her attitudes towards toys, there’s a real risk she just says “pass”. If I can get...
by Dan4201
Sat Jan 25, 2020 10:33 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Best toys for those new to toys
Replies: 15
Views: 4826
Gender:

Best toys for those new to toys

My wife has recently become open to the idea of tease and orgasm denial. I'm trying to take it slowly and let her go at her own pace so that she's as comfortable as possible with everything. One thing I'd like to do is introduce more ways to pleasure her so that she gets more out of the arrangement....
by Dan4201
Fri Oct 18, 2019 12:40 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Something new... what was that?
Replies: 7
Views: 2008
Gender:

Re: Something new... what was that?

Ok, things continue to get weirder. It seems those small non-ejaculating orgasms were the warmup. While stirring a giant pot of chili last night, I felt an orgasm coming. I probably should have stopped stirring so vigorously but kept going and got a full on orgasm. The weird thing was that I got wha...
by Dan4201
Fri Oct 18, 2019 8:31 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Lock failure - BCWYWF!
Replies: 4
Views: 1732
Gender:

Re: Lock failure - BCWYWF!

You can buy a Burg Wachter ME/2 lock on Amazon for $25. The maker of the Cherry Keeper devices recommends it as a replacement for the cheap locks and it does look sturdier. As an added bonus, it’s keyed differently than the Chinese devices which, in my experience, are all keyed the same.
by Dan4201
Thu Oct 17, 2019 8:26 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Something new... what was that?
Replies: 7
Views: 2008
Gender:

Re: Something new... what was that?

It happened again last night and it really does feel good, though not as good as an uncaged ejaculating orgasm. I do feel fortunate and this seems like a pretty big win for longer term denial. If this is how I feel at three weeks, what will it be like next week? The only real problem is that I can t...
by Dan4201
Tue Oct 15, 2019 9:56 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Something new... what was that?
Replies: 7
Views: 2008
Gender:

Something new... what was that?

For the last couple months I've been self locking when my wife isn't around or when intimacy isn't going to happen. I'm still working through some cage sizing issues but it's been enjoyable. Sex is a fairly infrequent affair, often being three to six weeks apart. When we have sex it's very enjoyable...
by Dan4201
Thu Oct 10, 2019 8:48 pm
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Ring Size - How Tight is Too Tight
Replies: 6
Views: 3334
Gender:

Re: Ring Size - How Tight is Too Tight

Thanks for the replies and the suggestions! I’ve tried round and ergonomic rings as well as whatever you’d call the HT rings. Trial and error has been helpful so far but the one thing I can’t seem to find a way to try (inexpensively) is a larger than 50mm ring. All of the eBay/DHGate devices I’ve se...
by Dan4201
Wed Oct 09, 2019 10:05 pm
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Ring Size - How Tight is Too Tight
Replies: 6
Views: 3334
Gender:

Ring Size - How Tight is Too Tight

Hello, all! I'm relatively new here but I've been enjoying reading through the threads and I've been learning quite a bit. I have a knockoff HTv3 Nano and Small as well as a couple DHGate metal devices including the A272 and 271. One of the challenges I've been having is figuring out which ring is t...
by Dan4201
Wed Oct 09, 2019 10:34 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: "Hello world" thread
Replies: 4663
Views: 1079132
Gender:

Re: "Hello world" thread

Hello all. I'm a married man who's been playing on and off with chastity for a couple decades. I took a long time away from it but I'm thinking more and more to trying to introduce it to my wife. Unfortunately, it'll be the second attempt as I tried once before and did a fairly terrible job. I made ...