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by Xileh
Wed May 01, 2024 12:22 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Emergency key horror stories
Replies: 16
Views: 24715

Re: Emergency key horror stories

I was out running errands. I had some pain and I had called my doctor that morning. They said they would call if an appointment opened up. They called and I went straight over. The key was at home. I warned him in advance. He sent me right off to check in at Emergency. I was able to go home and unlo...
by Xileh
Wed May 01, 2024 12:08 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Helping Hand
Replies: 20
Views: 11567

Re: Helping Hand

My cage uses a padlock. She likes the look. She likes unlocking and removing the cage. She turns it into a major tease. I remove the ring if possible. It works better if I put it back on. She really likes clicking the lock shut though.
by Xileh
Wed May 01, 2024 12:02 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Post Orgasm Blues
Replies: 24
Views: 7539

Re: Post Orgasm Blues

jomojo76 wrote: Tue Apr 30, 2024 5:13 pm I literally went from perfect partner at 11pm to a ghost of myself when I woke up the following morning.
It is similar for me. Sometimes I don’t have much of a drop, others times it is very noticeable. I haven’t figured out a pattern yet.
by Xileh
Wed May 24, 2023 8:58 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Four years and my thanks to everyone.
Replies: 2
Views: 2524

Re: Four years and my thanks to everyone.

Congratulations! We are in our fifth year. Prior to chastity and FLR, our long marriage was in trouble. Now, we talk more, we talk openly about subjects that we never talked about. We talk more, period. We are now closer than ever and as deeply in love as when we first met. Chastity was never a kink...
by Xileh
Tue May 23, 2023 9:46 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: What is it like to wear chasity permanently
Replies: 28
Views: 32890

Re: What is it like to wear chasity permanently

We prefer the term “Full Time Chastity”. It comes off for certain appointments, air travel, and when she decides to.
by Xileh
Mon May 22, 2023 10:07 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Masculine Male Chastity
Replies: 21
Views: 13947

Re: Masculine Male Chastity

Tom Allen wrote: Tue May 16, 2023 11:54 am I just happen to be having several different discussions about the idea of being locked as inherently emasculating.
In our case, not at all. She likes the control, but she still wants her man. I am more submissive to her when locked, but all else remains as before. We do not practice humiliation.
by Xileh
Thu Apr 20, 2023 8:30 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: The Dick of Theseus
Replies: 2
Views: 1578

Re: The Dick of Theseus

After some time, every single board and mast has been replaced. Is it still Theseus' ship, even though there's nothing original? Yet the spirit remains. Ships have personalities and I dare say a spirit due to her experiences and the people that have sailed in her. Although she may look fresh after ...
by Xileh
Tue Mar 07, 2023 7:10 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Submissive headspace during sex?
Replies: 4
Views: 2743

Re: Submissive headspace during sex?

“But there's a lot of layers to this” Absolutely. I don’t think anyone can deny your statement. You both have done a great job communicating. She has told you exactly what she wants from you. What would be the harm in doing exactly what she has asked for? That is her starting to be more dominant. No...
by Xileh
Wed Oct 12, 2022 8:26 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Thank you for a place to "talk."
Replies: 4
Views: 1869

Re: Thank you for a place to "talk."

It is unfortunate that most information about chastity, doesn’t let it stand on its own. Most often it is grouped with other kinks. That this site does not, makes it unique.
by Xileh
Wed Oct 12, 2022 8:22 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: I am a new keyholder
Replies: 4
Views: 3790

Re: I am a new keyholder

That’s great. My keyholder seems to have also taken charge of the key to my truck. She doesn’t wear it on a necklace, but none the less…

She does let me borrow it when there is stuff to be done.