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Hi Canuck, I empathize with your situation. It may be similar to how mine was a few months back. What I did was to 1. Change my behavior while wearing my device. I became super attentive to her in bed and, in fact, didn't mind when our intimate encounters didn't end with me having an orgasm. This ne...

I relate to your writing about having to "dial back" your physical affections towards your wife. We are new to chastity and still finding our balance point. She has complained that I have "worn her out" with my affection. So I keep my distance - and feel distanced. I'm finding th...

This morning my wife and I “frolicked” which included her removing my cage and our enjoying PIV sex for the first time in a quite a while. (and my first orgasm in the same amount of time). I’ve had some interesting thoughts and realizations around this happy experience. It’s 6:30 PM now. Ever since ...

A few days ago I wrote how I saw chastity as helping adjust a misalignment of levels of desire between me and my wife. It dampens my “need” for frequent orgasms and way increases my patience. I described this to my wife, saying that I feel it’s having a very positive effect on our relationship. I wa...

I’m very new to chastity and I’m enjoying how my level of self- understanding is evolving and growing. I’ve been wearing a Holy Trainer copy 23 ½ /7 for maybe a month or so. I take it off only to clean myself in the shower and then put it back on. My wife has a key but so do I and basically I am my ...

Picture this: Sunday morning, freshly showered, unlocked, snuggling with wife, things getting hot, she's about to get me off, I say NO I want to wait until tomorrow. I stopped her because - I know that my recuperative powers are limited and - I know that once I come I will lose interest in sex for a...

The conflict is a little different for my wife and I. I am really attracted to chastity for several reasons: - I love how it encourages me to focus on her pleasure - I get turned on when she is turned on - It keeps my focus on our relationship instead of my mind wandering elsewhere - She sees the go...

Hi All, A PA piercing seems very extreme to me. I'm wondering if there isn't a possible alternative. I'm thinking that if a ring was implanted a little above the base of the penis, on top, it would serve as an anchor point for a cage. Or maybe two rings, one to either side of the base of the penis. ...

Thanks TwistedMister,

I appreciate your tips. I'll pick up some silicone lube. I'm almost computer illiterate and find the BB codes intimidating; I'll have to spend some time studying them.

Re: The Sticky Dick issue My experience is that if I have been wearing my HT for 12 hours or more my dick comes out smelling bad. I wouldn't invite anyone to handle it then before I've washed well. I do find that using K-Y jelly as lube to get my penis into the tube works well and delays the smelly ...