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Although, I must say, the conversation following the original post is always good for a re-read. And a reminder, in every aspect of life, to take the small extra effort to do something correctly.

I am not a medical expert. I get the appeal of an insertable tube to help keep things in place, but nothing will convince me that they are safe for long term wear. I always remember reading about Thumper’s experience. At first, he thought the idea was very, very exciting. He justified it by saying ...

I have a “dp” harness like the one pictured. Worked really well for me. When I’m caged, I can’t get balls and cage through the hole, only the cage, but that will be based on sizes (the hole and you).

I say “dp” harness, as it’s designed for using two dildos at once. Have never tried it for that, lol.

I can’t set a goal like that. If I know the cage isn’t coming off, if I know there’s no chance of an orgasm at whatever moment, it isn’t exciting for me, it’s just depressing. There needs to be a “it could happen at any moment” aspect, or I become withdrawn and defensive. But I did count, when she w...

I think it was on here that I read about someone with an agreement with their wife that on a certain night of the week, for a certain length of time, was his opportunity to get everything off his chest. And another idea was a journal accessible to both parties, where he wrote things down to get them...

Just for my own record of events … “she’s dealing with something” is a code for me that I’m familiar with and know what it means. It’s ended this stuff before, and it has ended it again.

Back to hoping. (please don’t comment; there’s no point.)

For me, chastity has always felt like a conversation, so self locking always feels like talking to myself. Can be productive short term, but just gets boring trying to have a long conversation with yourself. This hasn’t been so bad so far, but to explain why, I need a lot of back story. Feel free to...

My wife “lost” the key once. We were at home, and she was so apologetic, but if I remember correctly, my suggestion of “Well, then I guess I stay locked until you find it,” was met with, “Don’t you have an emergency key? Didn’t you show me that?” So I broke the seal on the emergency key. Dumbest par...

It is very odd that she would come up with this out of nowhere. Communication would be my next step. Will you enjoy it? We can’t answer that. We are a forum of people that do enjoy it, so there’s going to be bias here. Should you stand your ground? You’re married; you should talk. Find out what her ...

Sad to worse. Absolutely no mention of it. No acknowledgement to even say, “Hey, I know, but …” There was even a situation over the summer where we were guests in a friends’ house, and we had sex, but I really didn’t want to leave a mess on the sheets. So I held off, and the next morning, she teased...