Chastity Forums

No, hehe, I will not rush anything, locked4her55. I doubt I will even bring up the idea of a chastity device before we live together, and even then I will (try to) be very patient.

Thank you for your input, TwistedMister! I could not agree more with you on chastity being an extension of delayed gratification. I would love it if I could just see a hint of joy in her eyes when teasing me, because she knows that she has the control. I would love even more if one day I could log i...

Yes...that is why I want to do this one baby step at a time. I am afraid that my gf will think that there is something wrong with her, which is definitely not the case. And I have the impression from a lot of posts made on this forum that for many women (maybe men too), the idea has to mature for so...

Thank you, Lucard! For some reason I do not think I would have difficulties doing that. It's a great idea! When we have sex, if possible, I always let her come first (some few times she just wants me to come). I love when she is satisfied, and her satisfaction just turns me on a hundredfold more, bu...

Thank you for your help!

Thank you again, Lady M! I think I will go for the integrated. The gap is not very important, but I am talking about the lower space between the ring and the tube. Dietmar writes "The ring has a distance to the tube of 0.197 inch (5mm) at the top and 0.591 inch (15mm) below." I am concerne...

Thank you very much for your answer, locked4her55. I will definitely try to not overwhelm her in any way. I did like the idea of doing a game out of it, and then if she seems to like it, take it one small step further. I am very happy to hear about you and your wife! I think there is a small part of...

Hi, everyone! I have been wanting to buy a Steelworxx Revenge for quite some time now, and I was wondering if anyone here could help me with some very detailed questions. Any help would be much appreciated! First of all, the only chastity device I have had any experience with is the CB6000s. I have ...

Thank you for your answer, MarcusXIII. You are talking about chastity without a device (to begin with)? In that case, that is a very good idea. I think I have the courage to tell her that I like that she teases me. I have told her before, I have just not specified that she can tease me without follo...

Thank you so much, Lady M, I will do that. I feel like holding it in, if not detrimental, will at least create a distance between us, and that is not good in any relationship. I am sorry to hear about his struggle, but at the same time I have to say that I am relieved that other struggle with the sa...