Chastity Forums

Thomas is fine. :) My wife is very aware of what goes on with me. In general, she is very affectionate and sensitive to my needs. She enjoys getting relief from me (usually in the form of oral) and edging me a few times before locking me back up. No way, no how, am I allowed to orgasm anywhere but i...

Yes, men have a hormonal cycle, but it advances/declines much more frequently and is dependent a bit on age. This was something I learned in a class my wife and I took on fertility. I have found that my high-hormonal cycles run during her ovulation peek period (about 5 to 7 days) and her menstruatio...

See, this is what I've never understood: here you have a community filled with guys *begging* for denial, yet a large number (not just here) are saying that masturbation is a problem because it's too easy to get porn. Great point, Tom. While the two issues (porn and masturbation) may go hand-in-han...

Yep. I get that too. I agree with all of your points above. The biological fact is that my wife simply does not think about sex or my chastity most of the time. When asked, she loves me being locked up. She is turned on by the fact that I no longer orgasm without her permission. But, we are both act...

I used to be totally addicted to porn, long before Al Gore invented the internet. Today, I can still be titillated by it and still find it tempting to view. But the reality is I believe that porn is bad for everyone. Those who look to porn for excitement and sexual relief are living in a virtual wor...

I was 39; my wife was 41. We've been in chastity for about a year, but only using a lockup device since last May. How it started, for the most part, is that I was initiating sex way too much (for my wife's taste) and she was not initiating at all (duh!). This was a problem for both of us. Our sex li...

I think the general consensus from most of the women I've heard from is that we all tend to like metal devices better. Like Atone said, ask your wife. Get her involved in the purchase process. Show her some pictures online. At a minimum you'll be spending $150 which isn't bus fare so it is worth th...

It is the only way my wife and I have sex anymore. I am not allowed to masturbate, nor will she masturbate me to full orgasm. Only enough to get me to the edge a couple of times before locking me up again. SO, to answer the question, it's pretty darn important to us.

This is what he was wearing, but with the screw, not a lock. When we ordered the WM, I asked Bill if we could get the front ring to work with the base ring of the WM. He said sure. Somehow or another, even though they were made at the same time, the gap on the cock ring set is bigger than the gap o...

danj wrote:My wife actually likes that better than the device, and it means the same thing to us...it is her cock and reminds me of that fact.

Hmm... I wonder if they have engraved cock rings. Something that says "Property of ....."