Chastity Forums

I just noticed this question a few days ago, accidentally, while doing some research on the forums for a new device. I've been lurking the last few years, being super busy and focusing my limited time in critical areas. Probably little point in responding now, but just in case: The Jail Bird has be...

IMO, the worst thing about devices with slots like the Steelheart 2 is urinating. If you can't easily line up the meatus, as with the cb-6000 or some other open designs, it is just messy. That's why I went with the regular Steelheart, it only flows out that little hole…less mess. This is an interes...

Hey there, I have worn chastity devices on and off, the mm jailbird etc, but I run a lot and find them tough to live with when running. What I really want is just something that covers the glans to prevent masturbation, does anyone have experience with glans rings for masturbation control? I think ...

I have the security screw. When I first wore the jailbird, it was for 17 straight days and the screw never loosened. I was briefly out and then locked in again (today is 6th day since being briefly out) and again, I have not experienced any loosening of the screw. It is slightly tricky to line up a...

I would suggest a touch of lube in contact points. If you're going to go this route, try Body Glide. It's like a deodorant bar, so it's not wet or sticky. It's actually designed for marathon runners and triathletes to fight chafing, but I've found it's super effective in keeping everything in order...

I had a bit gag, unless you're into pony play, or the look of it, its not worth getting IMO, as it doesn't work well as a gag at all. Thanks for the note. Not into pony play, or at least I don't know if I am, but I don't think so. I guess I'll hold off. can't figure out which if any of these are lo...

Mr. S Leather is my vendor of choice, even though it is gay-oriented, they are very selective and have great gear. The ball gag I got from them is my absolute favorite. I have a link to it on my blog. I have lots of other gags--the o-rings are less comfortable and hard to keep oriented and positione...

I don't think of putting my husband/slave in the cage for training or discipline, if by discipline you mean punishment? That's a good question, and something I probably should've clarified originally. I don't consider discipline and punishment to be the same. Punishment can be a component used to d...

locked4her55 wrote:

HeldForHer wrote:Just to clarify, the padlock only fits sideways even without the screw option as well?

Yes.

I really dislike this and prefer balance (must be my OCD) as well as the sound and feeling of a clanking lock as a constant reminder of my chastity.

I use it extensively for D/s, especially without the benefit of a dedicated keyholder/teaser. And I've been incorporating that into an exercise regimen, so all positive across the board. I'm keeping a blog of the experience although I am currently on a medically-necessitated hiatus due to severe nic...